
The Extra Thing ∙∙
He Himself is kind to ungrateful and evil men. – Luke 6:3
Luke 6:31-36
Do to others as you would like them to do to you. If you love only those who love you, why should you get credit for that? Even sinners love those who love them! And if you do good only to those who do good to you, why should you get credit? Even sinners do that much! And if you lend money only to those who can repay you, why should you get credit? Even sinners will lend to other sinners for a full return.
Love your enemies! Do good to them. Lend to them without expecting repayment. Then your reward from heaven will be very great, and you will truly be acting as children of the Most High, for he is kind to those who are unthankful and wicked. You must be compassionate, just as your Father is compassionate.
The Human Tendency to Compare
The tendency to compare ourselves to others is deeply rooted in human nature. It helps us evaluate how well we fit into social groups, measure our performance, and understand our position within societal dynamics. While this instinct can sometimes give us a temporary boost in self-esteem, it often falls short of being truly constructive. More importantly, it doesn’t meet the higher standard we are called to.
The Father’s Standard: Beyond Ordinary
God’s standard for children of the King goes far beyond simply being “just as good” as others or even slightly better. He calls us to rise above the ordinary, striving for excellence in our actions, thoughts, and moral values. This higher calling reflects the Father’s desire for children of the King to embody lives of extraordinary character and integrity. As Charles Stanley eloquently describes, the Father’s ethical and moral code is not about merely meeting the minimum requirements; it is about embracing “the extra thing”, going beyond what is expected or conventional.
The Lord Jesus Christ highlighted this principle in His teachings, questioning the common view of acceptable behavior. In Matthew 5:46-47, He asks, “If you love only those who love you, what reward is there for that? Even corrupt tax collectors do that much. If you are kind only to your friends, how are you different from anyone else? Even pagans do that.”
Through this rhetorical question, Jesus highlights that merely matching others’ goodness isn’t the goal. Instead, He calls us to a higher standard, one that demonstrates the transformative power of God’s love within us. The real challenge isn’t how we compare to others, but living a life that reflects the extraordinary character of our Heavenly Father.
The True Measure of Conduct
The criterion for evaluating our actions is not grounded in how we measure up to others. As William Barclay insightfully notes, “It is not our neighbors with whom we must compare ourselves; we may well stand that comparison very adequately; it is God with whom we must compare ourselves, and in that comparison, we are all in default.”
This perspective shifts the focus from human standards, which can be flawed and inconsistent, to the divine standard of perfection. When we compare ourselves to God, the vast difference becomes very clear. God is perfect. His ways, thoughts, emotions, and actions are flawless. In contrast, we fall short in every way, revealing our imperfections and limits.
This stark contrast isn’t meant to discourage us but to foster humility and a sincere awareness of our need for growth. It’s a call to work toward spiritual maturity, aiming to reflect more of God’s character in our everyday lives. Recognizing His standard reminds us that being conformed to the image of Christ is an ongoing, continual process.
The High Calling of God’s Children
Why does God set such high standards for His children? The answer is His desire for us to grow spiritually and reflect His character. As part of His Forever Family, we’re called to embody His qualities, love, goodness, kindness, gentleness, and mercy. These characteristics are not merely ideals to admire but virtues we’re to actively develop in our lives.
One of the most meaningful and challenging ways we mirror God’s character is by loving our enemies and genuinely seeking their highest good. This radical love reflects God’s heart, which has shown us unmatched grace and compassion. Romans 5:8 emphasizes this: “But God showed His great love for us by sending Christ to die for us while we were still sinners.”
When we were defiant, rebellious, and totally unworthy, God extended His love and offered redemption through Christ. Likewise, we are called to overcome our natural tendencies toward resentment or retaliation and instead reflect the transformative love of the Father. This high standard isn’t merely a command but an invitation to share in the divine nature, embodying the grace and mercy God has freely given us.
The Golden Rule: Beyond Reciprocity
The golden rule, often summarized as “treat others as you want to be treated,” goes far beyond simple reciprocity. While reciprocity, returning kindness for kindness, is a practice even sinful and morally corrupt individuals can follow to some degree, God’s standard exceeds this basic idea.
God calls His children to live by a higher standard that shows His endless grace and love. This standard asks us to be compassionate and kind, not just to those who treat us well but also to those who don’t seem deserving. By doing this, we reflect God’s nature, as He shows love and mercy to everyone, no matter what they deserve. This way of building relationships is not about fairness or what we can get back; it’s about showing the selfless love that God has given us.
REFLECT & PRAY
We reflect the Father best when we imitate Him. Our lives should reflect the profound inner transformation constantly at work in our minds and spirits.
Father, thank You for Your kindness and mercy. You chose not to give me what I deserve but instead showered me with grace and provided blessings that I could never earn or achieve on my own.
INSIGHT
The Call to Selfless Love
The love that God expects from His children is selfless and sacrificial, one that goes beyond human instincts and reaches even to those who hate, scorn, despise, exploit, and try to harm us. This kind of love is not conditional or selective; it reflects the love God has shown us.
Before we were welcomed into His Forever Family, many of us openly opposed Him. We resisted His presence, rejected His authority, and actively tried to keep our distance from Him. Yet, despite our rebellion, the Father pursued us with unwavering, relentless love, offering us grace and redemption.
Mercy in Action: Compassion That Moves
Mercy, as demonstrated by God, is far more than a feeling of pity or sympathy. It is compassion in action, an active response to the needs of others. The Father did not merely observe humanity’s desperate condition with sorrow; He intervened. He sent His Son to rescue us from the grip of sin and its devastating consequences. This act of mercy was not passive but transformative, offering us a path to restoration and hope.
As William Barclay insightfully explains, we are called to reflect this same mercy and kindness in our interactions with others, regardless of how they treat us. Mercy is not contingent on the worthiness of the recipient; it reflects the character of the giver.
1 Thessalonians 5:15: “See that no one pays back evil for evil, but always try to do good to each other and to all people.”
This captures the essence of mercy. It’s not about simply avoiding retaliation or revenge; it’s about actively pursuing the good of others, even those who have wronged us. Mercy challenges us to rise above our natural impulses for justice or revenge and instead embody God’s transformative love and grace. In doing so, we not only reflect His character but also become instruments of His redemptive work in the world.
The Supernatural Nature of Mercy
Living out this kind of love and mercy is not merely difficult; it’s impossible without divine assistance. The Scriptures do not imply that living out our faith is hard; they reveal that it requires supernatural empowerment. Without the transformative work of the Holy Spirit within us, we cannot accomplish “the extra thing” that the Father asks of us.
Our natural instincts, influenced by our fallen nature, cry out for justice and revenge. Extending mercy feels counterintuitive, as if it downplays the seriousness of the offense. Yet, this is a misunderstanding of mercy. Mercy does not ignore the wrong; it recognizes it and responds with grace. After all, where no wrong is committed, there is no need for mercy.
Mercy Reflects God’s Heart
When we show mercy, we reflect the Father’s character. We give to others what He has generously given to us. Think about how often we fall short, yet the Father does not punish us for every sin. Instead, He offers grace and patience, giving us time to grow and change.
Luke 6:36: “You must be compassionate, just as your Father is compassionate.”
This verse challenges us to demonstrate the Father’s compassion in our dealings with others, even our enemies. It’s a call to trust God with our hurts and to extend the same mercy to others that we have received.
The Challenge of God’s Standard
Charles Stanley often encouraged people with the words, “Look your best, do your best, be your best.” While this is an admirable goal, the Father’s standard goes even further. In light of Luke 6:31-36, the challenge is to “Look His best, do His best, be His best.” This involves striving to reflect God’s character in every part of our lives, our thoughts, actions, and relationships. It is a call to rise above human limits and depend on the Holy Spirit’s power to fulfill this extraordinary purpose. By aiming for God’s standard, we go beyond just human effort and step into a life that truly reflects His divine nature.
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© Dr. H 2026