
Respect What is Right ∙
Respect what is right in the sight of all men. – Romans 12:17
Romans 12:17 Never pay back evil with more evil. Do things in such a way that everyone can see you are honorable.
Proverbs 3:1-13
My child, never forget the things I have taught you. Store my commands in your heart. If you do this, you will live many years, and your life will be satisfying. Never let loyalty and kindness leave you! Tie them around your neck as a reminder. Write them deep within your heart. Then, you will find favor with both God and people, and you will earn a good reputation.
Trust in the LORD with all your heart; do not depend on your own understanding. Seek his will in all you do, and he will show you which path to take.
My child, don’t reject the LORD’s discipline and don’t be upset when he corrects you. For the LORD corrects those he loves, just as a father corrects a child in whom he delights. Joyful is the person who finds wisdom, the one who gains understanding.
The Life and Legacy of Rodney Dangerfield
Rodney Dangerfield, born Jacob Cohen in Babylon, New York, faced a turbulent childhood shaped by the absence of his father, who abandoned the family shortly after his birth. This early loss left a deep impact on Dangerfield, fueling feelings of rejection and neglect that he would later describe as being “unloved and unwanted.” These formative experiences became the foundation of his comedic identity, inspiring his iconic catchphrase, “I Don’t Get No Respect.” This phrase, both humorous and poignant, encapsulated his struggles and served as a satirical commentary on his difficult upbringing.
Dangerfield’s talent for turning personal pain into comedy became his signature, propelling him to stardom and cementing his status as a legend in stand-up. His big break came in the 1970s with a performance on The Ed Sullivan Show, where his unique brand of self-deprecating humor was introduced to a national audience. After this breakthrough, he became a regular on The Dean Martin Show and The Tonight Show, where his “no respect” routine connected with viewers and became the core of his career.
Over the years, Dangerfield’s sharp wit and relatable humor earned him widespread admiration, turning his painful early story into a universal source of laughter. By the time he passed away in October 2004, Rodney Dangerfield had not only redefined self-deprecating comedy but also gained the respect and recognition he jokingly said he lacked. His legacy lives on as a symbol of resilience, humor, and the power of transforming life’s hardships into joy for others.
The Concept of Respect
The English word respect comes from the Latin noun respectus , meaning “looking back” or “looking again” at someone or something. The noun respectus is derived from re, meaning “back” or “again,” and specere, meaning “to look at” or “to observe.” Respect is often associated with esteem and is defined as “a positive feeling or action shown toward someone or something held in high regard.”
While Rodney Dangerfield’s comedic persona famously focused on the lack of respect, his personal story highlights a deeper, universal truth: the innate human need for recognition, validation, and dignity. His humor, though self-deprecating, serves as a mirror reflecting society’s shared desire to feel valued and appreciated, extending beyond mere comedy to touch on a core part of the human experience.
A Higher Standard for the Children of the King
As children of the King, our response to mistreatment is not driven by the impulses of our fallen nature. While it might be natural to retaliate, Scripture calls us to a higher standard. In Romans 12:17, Paul reminds us to “be careful to do what is honorable in the sight of everyone.”
What truly defines what is honorable? Philosophers such as Immanuel Kant have suggested the existence of a universal moral code, an innate sense of “oughtness” that guides human behavior. Kant argued that goodwill, defined as the moral obligation to help others, is the only inherently good quality, serving as the foundation for ethical behavior and moral reasoning.
Although this perspective provides a clear structure, society’s moral codes can be inconsistent and subjective. They can also be misinterpreted, especially in a world full of moral ambiguity and uncertainty.
The Apostle Paul urges followers of Christ to avoid adopting the standards of unbelievers, who judge right and wrong based on shifting cultural values. Instead, he encourages us to live out the essence of the gospel in our daily lives. It is our responsibility to act in ways that reflect Christ’s character, rising above the world’s flawed, transitory moral standards.
The Standard Set by Christ
The Lord Jesus Christ established the ultimate standard for how His followers should respond to mistreatment. In Matthew 5:39-44, He teaches:
“But I say, do not resist an evil person! If someone slaps you on the right cheek, offer the other cheek also. If you are sued in court, and your shirt is taken from you, give your coat, too. If a soldier demands that you carry his gear for a mile, carry it two miles. Give to those who ask, and don’t turn away from those who want to borrow.
You have heard the law that says, ‘Love your neighbor,’ and hate your enemy. But I say, love your enemies! Pray for those who persecute you!”
This radical teaching challenges children of the King to rise above the natural human tendency for retaliation and instead respond with grace, generosity, and love toward those who wrong them.
REFLECT & PRAY
As Käsemann wisely observed, “Doing good to all is something to be planned and not just willed.” Living out the gospel requires intentionality and preparation. It is not enough to simply desire to do good; we must anticipate challenges and be ready to respond in a way that reflects Christ’s character.
Father, help me to anticipate ill-treatment and be prepared to respond appropriately in a fashion that honors You.
INSIGHT
The Meaning of Respect in Scripture
The Greek word for “respect” is pronoeo. This term carries a rich meaning, including ideas of “foresight, regard, or showing respect.” Coming from pro, meaning “before,” and noeo, meaning “to think or understand.” Pronoeo denotes “thinking ahead to respond properly. It highlights intentionality and preparation in our actions and attitudes.”
Nuances of Pronoeo in Translation
The depth of pronoeo is reflected in the various translations of Romans 12:17:
- “Respect what is right in the sight of all men.” (NAS)
- “Give thought to do what is honorable in the sight of all.” (ESV)
- “Do things in such a way that everyone can see you are honorable.” (NLT)
- “Consider what is good before all people.” (NET)
- “Be careful to do what is right in the eyes of everybody.” (NIV)
- “Try to do what is honorable in everyone’s eyes.” (CSBO)
Each translation highlights a slightly different aspect of the term pronoeo. Still, the central message remains consistent: children of the King are encouraged to “act thoughtfully and with integrity, ensuring that their actions reflect what is good and honorable in the eyes of others.”
The Call to Goodness
Paul’s instruction in Romans 12:17 is clear: “We are to live in a way that commends us to nonbelievers by doing what is recognized as good and honorable.” As Moo explains, “We should, then, take Paul’s words at face value: he wants us to commend ourselves before non-Christians by seeking to do those ‘good things’ that non-Christians approve and recognize. There is, of course, an unstated limitation to this command, one that resides in the word ‘good’ itself.”
The Greek term translated as “good” in this context is kala. Greek has two words to describe goodness: agathos, which refers to “intrinsic goodness” or “the inherent moral quality of something,” and kalos, the term used here, which denotes “exterior goodness.” Kalos emphasizes “goodness that is outwardly visible, representing the external expression of an internal moral character.” In essence, kalos reflects the manifestation of inward virtue through outward actions and behavior.
This outward expression of goodness must align with the inward reality of a child of the King’s character. Wuest warns, “But if the Christian assumes an outward expression which is patterned after this age, that expression not representing what he is, a child of God, but giving the beholder the impression that he is a person of the world, that expression is a dishonest one.”
Living as Witnesses
As children of the King, our actions are under constant scrutiny by those around us. The way we live, visible to “the eyes of everybody,” should serve as a reflection of our Father’s goodness and bring honor to Him. This calling goes beyond simply refraining from retaliation or resisting the urge to return evil for evil. It requires deliberate, thoughtful preparation to ensure that our behavior consistently aligns with the values and character of the One we represent.
Jack Cottrell emphasizes this point: “The main point is that, instead of reciprocating evil for evil, we should think out ahead of time how we will respond when others attack us or wrong us in some way. By taking forethought, we can be ready to respond aright, with ‘good things,’ i.e., in such a way that we bear impressive witness before the world.”
This principle is echoed by the apostle Peter in 1 Peter 2:12: “Be careful to live properly among your unbelieving neighbors. Then even if they accuse you of doing wrong, they will see your honorable behavior, and they will give honor to God when he judges the world.”
A Life of Intentional Goodness
The call to live honorably is not a passive one. It demands thoughtful preparation, intentional effort, and a steadfast commitment to ensure that our outward actions authentically reflect the inward reality of our faith. In doing so, we not only embody the goodness of our Heavenly Father, but we also become living letters from God, drawing others toward Him.
Rodney Dangerfield’s life highlights the universal human desire for respect and recognition, a longing deeply embedded in the human experience. However, as children of the King, we are called to a higher standard, one that transcends worldly validation. Our purpose is to reflect the love, grace, and character of God even when faced with challenges or adversity. Unlike the shifting values of the world, our standards are firmly rooted in the unchanging truth of Scripture, which compels us to live out the gospel with humility, integrity, and intentionality.
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© Dr. H 2026
