
Why Yearn for God? ∙
We love Him because He first loved us. – 1 John 4:19 (KJV)
Psalms 19:7-10
The instructions of the LORD are perfect, reviving the soul. The decrees of the LORD are trustworthy, making wise the simple. The commandments of the LORD are right, bringing joy to the heart. The commands of the LORD are clear, giving insight for living. Reverence for the LORD is pure, lasting forever. The laws of the LORD are true; each one is fair. They are more desirable than gold, even the finest gold. They are sweeter than honey, even honey dripping from the comb.
Understanding Comfort Food
In the International Journal of Gastronomy and Food Science (2017), comfort food is defined as providing “consolation or a feeling of well-being.” This emotional comfort is closely linked to our senses of taste, touch, and smell. The article states that comfort foods are usually sweet or salty rather than sour or bitter, and are often associated with childhood and home-cooked meals. These foods evoke positive memories and feelings, providing a temporary lift to our mood.
The Double-Edged Nature of Comfort Food
Comfort foods, while providing emotional gratification in moderation, are often seen by nutritionists as a double-edged sword. These foods, usually high in calories, sugars, unhealthy fats, and sodium, can lead to long-term health issues such as weight gain, hypertension, and other chronic diseases when eaten in excess.
The desire for comfort food tends to increase during times of stress, anxiety, fear, or uncertainty, a pattern often called emotional eating. This tendency to seek comfort in such foods reflects our inherent fallen nature. As humans, we turn to these foods for solace. However, there are healthier, more excellent ways to find comfort that can support overall well-being.
A Divine Source of Comfort
The Father provides a much greater source of comfort and strength than any earthly food. As we delight in Him, He nourishes and sustains us in ways that go beyond physical satisfaction.
Psalms 34:8: “Taste and see that the LORD is good. Oh, the joys of those who take refuge in him!”
Psalms 34:8 invites us to “taste,” “to sample and experience the goodness of the Lord spiritually.” The Hebrewverb taam, translated as “taste,” refers to “both literal and spiritual nourishment.” “Taste” serves as “a metaphor for feasting on the Father and His Word, providing a deeper, more satisfying nourishment.”
The Connection Between Taste and Memory
Research shows a strong link between taste and long-term memory. Comfort foods, like “Mom’s apple pie,” often evoke vivid memories, sparking images of family gatherings and the warm comfort of home as they remind us of times spent sharing those meals.
Similarly, spiritual experiences of “tasting” the Lord and His Word leave lasting impressions on our hearts and minds. These encounters with God’s goodness are often clearly imprinted in our memories, highlighting specific details of when and where they happened. The more we experience His goodness, the more we desire Him.
A Deepening Desire for God
These treasured spiritual memories ignite and deepen our desire for the Lord. David, for example, expressed an unquenchable thirst for God, describing his longing in poetic and heartfelt terms.
He wrote in Psalms 42:1: “As the deer longs for streams of water, I long for you, O God.” David elaborated, in Psalms 73:25, “I desire you more than anything on earth.”
The profound impact of God’s goodness motivates those who experience it to pursue Him more deeply.
In Psalms 27:13, David proclaims unwavering faith in God’s goodness, encouraging all children of the King to trust His promises and find hope, even in the midst of life’s challenges: “I would have despaired unless I had believed that I would see the goodness of the LORD in the land of the living.”
The Fulfillment of Delight
When we find our joy in the Lord, a remarkable transformation takes place within us. As our desires begin to align with His divine will, He fulfills them in ways that bring genuine joy and deep fulfillment. This alignment not only enriches our lives but also reveals the profound satisfaction that comes from pursuing a purpose greater than ourselves.
David writes in Psalms 37:4: “Delight yourself in the LORD, and He will give you the desires of your heart.”
REFLECT & PRAY
Richison observes, “Our love for God and others originates in His love for us. God’s love is the incentive for our love . . . He took the initiative. His initiative enabled us to love because He put His love within us. He provided the loving apparatus.”
Father, thank You for loving me first. Thank You for giving me Your Word, which reveals the depth of Your love. Thank You for allowing me to experience the joy, pleasure, and delight of knowing You.
INSIGHT
The Origin of Love
Our yearning for God originates from His profound love for us. His unwavering devotion serves as both the cornerstone and the catalyst for authentic love. It is the ultimate source of true love. His love is remarkable; it precedes our responses, reaching out to us even before we can reciprocate. In this sense, the Father’s love is not only the foundation of our connection with Him but also the inspiration that empowers us to love genuinely.
The apostle John observed, 1 John 4:19: “We love, because He first loved us.”
The Father embodies the ultimate source of love, as the Scriptures teach that God is love itself. 1 John 4:16: “God is love.”
Without His divine initiative, humanity would lack both understanding and the genuine experience of undeserved love.
God’s love is agape love, “an unconditional, selfless, and unchanging love.”
Our capacity to love originates from the Father’s love and the spiritual essence He endows us with. His boundless love awakens a deep, reciprocal response within our hearts, drawing us to love Him in return. As we grow in our understanding of His love, our ability to respond increases, profoundly influencing our decisions and actions. As Richison aptly states, “He took the initiative. His initiative enabled us to love because He put His love within us. He provided the loving apparatus.”
Understanding God’s Love
The love of God can be understood and experienced in two main ways: through the cognitive domain and the affective domain. On the one hand, God’s love is something we can study, understand, and reflect on. On the other hand, His love is deeply felt; we experience it in our hearts and lives. This dual perspective on God’s love is both invigorating and life-changing.
How do we grow in our understanding and experience of God’s love?
We do so by making time for His Word a priority. Spending time in the Scriptures allows us to truly feel God’s love both emotionally and intellectually. This practice helps build a strong relationship with Him, strengthening our understanding and connection.
The Ambiguity of 1 John 4:19
In the original Greek text of 1 John 4:19, there is no direct object, which leaves the verse open to interpretation. It could be translated as, “We love . . . because first He loved us.”
The King James Version assumes the Father is the object and adds the word him:
1 John 4:19: “We love him because he first loved us.” (KJV)
Other translations, such as the NLT, interpret the object as referring to others:
1 John 4:19: “We love each other because he loved us first.” (NLT)
The most common rendering omits the direct object entirely, leaving the verse intentionally ambiguous: 1 John 4:19: “We love ___ because He first loved us.”
This ambiguity highlights the complex and layered nature of love. The love of God not only motivates us to love Him but also empowers us to show that love to others. By knowing and experiencing the Father’s love, we become equipped to express it outwardly and share it with those around us. As Richison notes, “Our capacity to love spiritually rests on something greater than our personal power to love. It is the response to God’s perfect love.”
The Ultimate Spiritual Comfort Food
What is the ultimate spiritual comfort food for the children of the King? It is a deep longing for and embracing a relationship with the Father, drawing strength from His presence and His Word. This sacred nourishment refreshes us, enriches our spirits, and increases our love for both Him and others.
The goodness of the Lord not only transforms us but also offers deep fulfillment. As we experience and cherish His goodness, we find ourselves drawn into a closer communion with Him, discovering comfort and strength that surpass what the world can provide.
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© Dr. H 2026