Straight A’s Don’t Matter ∙∙

Straight A’s Don’t Matter ∙∙

I have become all things to all men, so that I may, by all means, save some. – 1 Corinthians 9:22

1 Corinthians 9:19-23

Even though I am a free man with no master, I have become a slave to all people to bring many to Christ.

When I was with the Jews, I lived like a Jew to bring the Jews to Christ. When I was among those who followed Jewish law, I also lived under that law. Even though I am not subject to the law, I did this so I could bring to Christ those who are under the law.

When I am with the Gentiles who do not follow the Jewish law, I, too, live apart from that law so I can bring them to Christ. But I do not ignore the law of God; I obey the law of Christ. When I am with those who are weak, I share their weakness, for I want to bring the weak to Christ. Yes, I try to find common ground with everyone and do everything I can to save some.

I do everything to spread the Good News and share in its blessings.

The Myth of Perfectionism

Dr. Adam Grant, a renowned organizational psychologist, reflects on the obsession of academic perfectionism, particularly among college students. He shares, “When I was in college, I obsessed over getting straight A’s. Now that I’m a professor, I watch in dismay when I see students joining the same ‘cult of perfectionism.’ They think straight A’s will provide entrée to elite graduate schools and prestigious careers. The evidence, however, says otherwise.”

Grant highlights research showing that while grades may have a modest impact on job performance during the first year after college, their influence diminishes significantly over time. After a few years, the difference becomes “trivial.”

Conformity vs. Originality

Why do grades lose their importance? According to Grant, “Getting straight A’s requires conformity. Having an influential career demands originality.” While straight-A students are often stuck in their dorm rooms or libraries trying to achieve “meaningless perfection,” their peers are out in the world building essential skills that grades don’t measure. These include “creativity, leadership, and teamwork skills and social, emotional, and political intelligence.”

Grant argues that career success is not about “finding the right solution to a problem, it’s more about finding the right problem to solve.” This shift from perfection to innovation is what makes influential people stand out.

Redefining Success

Grant’s observation challenges the traditional idea that academic achievement predicts future success. Instead, they urge students to focus on originality, flexibility, and the development of interpersonal skills. True success isn’t about fitting into a strict mold but about embracing the unique challenges and opportunities life offers.

By shifting the focus from grades to growth, students can realize their full potential and create meaningful, impactful careers.

The Power of Underachievement

History is filled with examples of people who defied traditional standards of academic success yet went on to achieve greatness. Steve Jobs, the visionary behind Apple, had a high school GPA of 2.65 and dropped out of Reed College after one semester. J.K. Rowling, the author of the Harry Potter series, struggled academically, earning a C average at the University of Exeter, and faced many rejections from publishers. Martin Luther King Jr., one of the most influential leaders in history, earned only one “A” during his four years at Morehouse College. Albert Einstein struggled in school as a child. He was slow to speak and read, and his teachers labeled him as lazy and unlikely to succeed. Thomas Edison struggled significantly in school, where his teachers labeled him “difficult” and “addled” because of his inability to focus and his unconventional way of thinking. By age 12, Edison’s formal education came to an abrupt end. His mother, Nancy Edison, a former schoolteacher, homeschooled him.

These examples highlight an essential truth: underachieving in school does not preclude overachieving in life. The skills and qualities that lead to lasting success, creativity, resilience, and the ability to think differently are often developed outside the boundaries of academic perfectionism.

The Art of Finding Common Ground

1 Corinthians 9:22: “I try to find common ground with everyone, doing everything I can to save some.”

The Apostle Paul was highly adaptable and a trailblazer in original thinking. He introduced groundbreaking ideas to the world while staying committed to Biblical truth. Paul’s ability to connect with others wasn’t about compromising his beliefs but about understanding and empathizing with people from all backgrounds. He became a “human chameleon,” skillfully adjusting to the cultural and personal contexts of those he aimed to reach.

Paul’s approach was rooted in his deep understanding of human nature. He could see what shaped individuals, what motivated them, and what barriers prevented them from accepting the Gospel. This ability to empathize and connect made him one of the most effective missionaries of his time.

The Importance of Adaptability

One of the biggest challenges and opportunities for children of the King is learning how to connect with people from different backgrounds. Paul demonstrated this by becoming “all things to all people” without ever compromising the truth of the Gospel. His mission was clear: to bring as many people as possible to Christ.

Many of us, however, struggle to step outside our comfort zones or to understand others. Paul’s example reminds us that adaptability and empathy are not signs of weakness but tools for building bridges and creating meaningful relationships.  

1 Corinthians 9:23: “I do everything to spread the Good News and share in its blessings.”

REFLECT & PRAY

Paul’s life shows that standing firm in our convictions doesn’t mean being rigid or unapproachable. Instead, it requires a willingness to meet people where they are, find common ground, and share the love of Christ in ways they can understand.

Father, teach me how to stand firm on the truth while remaining flexible and adaptable to serve those You bring into my life.

INSIGHT

Free Yet Shackled

1 Corinthians 9:19: “Even though I am a free man with no master, I have become a slave to all people to bring many to Christ.”

What an incredible antinomy. Paul’s life embodies a remarkable paradox: he is free yet willingly shackles himself to serve others. Wiersbe observes, “What a paradox: free from all men, yet the servant of all men!”  

Immersed but Uncompromised

Paul had developed what James Boswell, the biographer of Samuel Johnson, called “the art of accommodating oneself to others.” He honed his ability to empathize, forge relationships, and communicate the Gospel of the Lord Jesus Christ effectively.

His approach to serving others was groundbreaking and impactful. Paul emphasized the importance of understanding the diverse cultural backgrounds and motivations of those he aimed to help, enabling him to form genuine, meaningful connections. By immersing himself in their experiences, he gained insight into their perspectives while remaining firm in his values and commitment to the Gospel.

Paul skillfully handled the challenge of engaging with different cultures without compromising his integrity. His flexibility reflected the example set by Jesus Christ, who came not to be served, but to serve others. As recorded by the Apostle Matthew, Matthew 20:25-28:

“You know that the rulers of the Gentiles lord it over them, and their great men exercise authority over them. It is not this way among you, but whoever wishes to become great among you shall be your servant, and whoever wishes to be first among you shall be your slave; just as the Son of Man did not come to be served, but to serve, and to give His life a ransom for many.”

The Challenge of Balance

Paul’s ability to adapt without compromising his faith serves as a model for all children of the King navigating today’s post-Christian culture. The societal landscape has changed, and we can no longer assume a shared Christian consensus. Like Paul, we must be flexible and adaptable, immersing ourselves in the world around us while staying true to our faith.

Romans 12:2: “Don’t copy the behavior and customs of this world, but let God transform you into a new person by changing the way you think. Then you will learn to know God’s will for you, which is good and pleasing and perfect.”

Paul’s ministry was distinguished by his remarkable capacity to tailor his message to diverse audiences while remaining steadfast in his core beliefs. This adaptability extended beyond his public ministry to his personal interactions. He skillfully navigated the cultural divide, refraining from flaunting his freedoms in front of the Jews and avoiding the imposition of the Law on the Gentiles. His strategic approach is evident in his speeches throughout the Book of Acts: when addressing Jewish audiences, Paul often drew on the experiences of Old Testament patriarchs, whereas in discussions with Gentiles, he initiated his messages by invoking the God of Creation.

Following the Example of Christ

Paul demonstrated the wisdom and adaptability that Jesus Christ showed. Jesus tailored His message to each audience, whether speaking to Nicodemus, a Jewish leader, about spiritual rebirth (John 3) or to the Samaritan woman about living water (John 4). Both Jesus and Paul avoided a rigid formula for evangelism, highlighting the importance of understanding and responding to the specific needs of their listeners.

As Wiersbe aptly puts it, “It takes tact to have contact.” Paul’s life and ministry remind us that effective engagement with others requires both wisdom and adaptability, rooted in a firm commitment to the truth.

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© Dr. H 2026

You Cannot Find Yourself if Nobody is There ∙∙

You Cannot Find Yourself if Nobody is There ∙∙

You will seek Me and find Me when you search for Me with all your heart. – Jeremiah 29:13

Isaiah 55:6-9

Seek the LORD while He may be found; call upon Him while He is near.

Let the wicked forsake his way and the unrighteous man his thoughts and let him return to the LORD. And He will have compassion on him, and to our God, for He will abundantly pardon.

“For My thoughts are not your thoughts, nor are your ways My ways,” declares the LORD.

“For as the heavens are higher than the earth, so are My ways higher than your ways and My thoughts than your thoughts.”

The Pursuit of Peace and Identity

Dr. Wayne W. Dyer, a renowned counseling psychologist and bestselling author, sagely asserted, “Peace is the result of retraining your mind to see life as it really is, rather than as you think it should be.” This notion of mental retraining holds significant practical importance, prompting a critical inquiry: What should we be conditioning our minds to accept and believe?

The search for identity and purpose is a fundamental human endeavor. Over millennia, individuals have sought to understand the essence of who they are and the meaning of their lives. Numerous solutions have emerged, predominantly centered on the self, which positions the individual at the core of existence. As Dyer articulates, “The idea of finding yourself simply means accessing your confidence, natural and potential abilities, sense of self-worth, self-reliance, and independence.”

A Divine Perspective on Identity

In contrast, the Father offers a very different view. In His kingdom, the focus shifts from discovering ourselves to discovering Him. When we encounter Him, we find our true identity as His beloved, adopted children. It is this relationship with the Father that helps us understand who we truly are.

Usually, two separate paths are presented for self-discovery and achieving inner peace.

Man’s Way: The Self-Help Movement

The first path is man’s way, often reflected in the self-help movement. This approach centers on transforming oneself into an idealized version of oneself. It suggests that through dedication and self-reflection, individuals can unlock their hidden potential and achieve extraordinary success. In some cases, this philosophy even claims that people can reach a level of enlightenment, equating their existence with that of divine beings.

The Father’s Way: Sanctification

The Father’s approach sharply contrasts. It does not emphasize the pursuit of becoming a better version of ourselves. Instead, we concentrate on recognizing and accepting our renewed identity in Christ. Through spiritual rebirth, we receive this new identity at the moment of salvation. This process is called sanctification. Sanctification involves discovering our new identity and living it out. As we do, we become more like Christ and experience more of what it means to be children of the King.

John Newton, the well-known author of the hymn “Amazing Grace,” powerfully illustrates this transformation. Newton’s life changed radically after he accepted Jesus Christ as his Savior and Lord. His words capture the deep inner change produced by the Father.

Amazing grace! How sweet the sound that saved a wretch like me!
I once was lost, but now am found; was blind, but now I see.

‘Twas grace that taught my heart to fear, and grace my fears relieved.
How precious did that grace appear the hour I first believed!

Newton’s profession of faith echoes the universal human experience of feeling adrift, lacking direction, and overwhelmed by hopelessness. His melodic musings emphasize that true transformation and inner peace stem not from self-help methods but from the grace of God.

The Universal Struggle

The feeling of being lost and lacking direction or purpose is a common thread in the human experience. How can someone truly discover themselves? The answer is in realizing that we can’t find ourselves when we are spiritually depleted and empty. It is through the transformative work of the Father in our lives that we can uncover our true identity and purpose.

REFLECT & PRAY

John F. Kennedy wisely asserted that, “Peace is a daily, a weekly, a monthly process, gradually changing opinions, slowly eroding old barriers, quietly building new structures.”

Father, thank You for seeking to transform the minds of each of Your children (Ephesians 4:23). You desire that we think Your thoughts and align our hearts with Your will.

INSIGHT

The Father’s Desire to Be Found

The Father is not playing a cosmic game of hide-and-seek with humanity. He sincerely desires to be found and actively invites people to seek Him. Through the prophet Isaiah, the Father calls out to each individual: Isaiah 55:6: “Seek the LORD while He may be found; call upon Him while He is near.”

The issue lies not with God, but with humanity itself. Many people deliberately turn away from the Father, choosing to run from Him rather than get closer. Despite the Father’s persistent, urgent call, they often find comfort in their rebellion. The window of opportunity is limited, and time is running out. The time to respond won’t last forever.

A Medieval Illustration of Urgency

Pause for a moment and imagine a medieval kingdom under siege, where the castle serves as a safe haven for its inhabitants. As enemies approach, warning horns or drums sound from the castle’s watchtowers, calling everyone to seek shelter. Timing is critical, as the drawbridge will soon be raised, the iron gate lowered, and the inner doors secured in preparation for the attack. Once closed, the castle becomes impenetrable, leaving those outside vulnerable to the invading forces.

Similarly, the Father’s kingdom offers mercy and protection, but individuals must act quickly and decisively. They need to change their way of thinking and living, abandon their selfish and evil ways, and return to the Father. His promise is clear: the Father will show compassion, forgive sins, and grant pardon. However, the choice to respond is up to each person.

A Promise of Discovery

A remarkable promise accompanies the Father’s invitation. Jeremiah 29:13-14: “If you will seek Me and search for Me with all your heart, you will find Me, says the LORD.”

This is a remarkable opportunity; however, there is a substantial disconnect between humanity and the Father. Isaiah’s words clarify the cause of this separation.

Father’s Higher Ways

Isaiah 55:8-9:


“For My thoughts are not your thoughts, nor are your ways My ways,” declares the LORD.
“For as the heavens are higher than the earth, so are My ways higher than your ways and My thoughts than your thoughts.”

In the Book of Isaiah, the Father makes it clear why people must abandon their old ways and adopt His. Humanity’s thoughts and actions are fundamentally different from God’s. As Gary Smith explains, “The thoughts of an Almighty God who has created the world, controls the history of nations, and plans what will happen to each person have a world perspective that is beyond the realm of human comprehension.”

A Lifelong Transformation

Becoming part of God’s Forever Family requires a gradual inward transformation. As human beings, we are often constrained by our earthly perspectives and limitations. However, becoming children of the King launches us into a lifelong journey of personal and spiritual growth. This path challenges us to think in alignment with God’s thoughts and to adjust our ways to reflect His will voluntarily.

The Father’s call is more than just an invitation; it is a pathway to transformation that provides mercy, protection, and a new way of life for those who earnestly seek Him wholeheartedly.

True peace and identity are not discovered through self-serving pursuits but rather through the transformative grace of the Father. As we seek Him, we uncover our true selves and experience the enduring peace that only He can provide.

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© Dr. H 2026

Dependable Friendship ∙∙

Dependable Friendship ∙∙

A man with too many friends comes to ruin, but there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother. – Proverbs 18:24

Proverbs 17:17 A friend loves at all times, and a brother is born for adversity.

Psalms 25:8-15

The LORD is good and does what is right; he shows the proper path to those who go astray.

He leads the humble in doing right, teaching them his way.

The LORD leads with unfailing love and faithfulness all who keep his covenant and obey his demands.

The LORD is a friend to those who fear him. He teaches them his covenant.

My eyes are always on the LORD, for he rescues me from the traps of my enemies.

The Journey of Friendship

In our youth, forming friendships often comes easily and naturally. However, as we get older, the process becomes more difficult. Life’s circumstances, such as physical distance or the passing of loved ones, can separate us from those we care about, making it harder to maintain or build meaningful connections.

What Makes a True Friend?

The qualities of a good friend are timeless and universal. Ann Landers beautifully described friendship as “love that has caught fire. It is quiet understanding, mutual confidence, sharing, and forgiving. It is loyalty through good and bad times. It settles for less than perfection and makes allowances for human weaknesses.”

Henri Nouwen further explores this idea, highlighting the emotional depth of true friendship: “When we honestly ask ourselves which person in our lives means the most to us, we often find that it is those who, instead of giving advice, solutions, or cures [Job’s friends], have chosen rather to share our pain and touch our wounds with a warm and tender hand. The friend who can be silent with us in a moment of despair or confusion, who can stay with us in an hour of grief and bereavement, who can tolerate not knowing, not curing, not healing, and face with us the reality of our powerlessness, that is a friend who cares.”

A true friend not only understands our struggles but loves us not despite our pain but because of it. They offer a safe space for vulnerability, providing comfort and support without judgment or expectation.

Friendship in the Bible

In Scripture, friendship is often portrayed as a relationship built on mutual trust, loyalty, and deep connection. Harper’s Bible Dictionary describes friendship as a bond of “mutual trust and congeniality,” exemplified by the profound relationship between David and Jonathan. 1 Samuel 18:1: “After David had finished talking with Saul, Jonathan became one in spirit with David, and he loved him as himself.”

The Bible also emphasizes the special friendship we share with the Father God. Psalms 25 describes the Father as a reliable and faithful friend. He is a steady source of guidance, comfort, and wisdom. His loving kindness and faithfulness are the foundation of this divine friendship, which He begins and maintains.

God’s loyal love (hesed) embodies the Father’s personality. It is often translated as “kindness, mercy, or lovingkindness.” It is not merely a quality; it is the driving force behind who He is and how He engages with us.

REFLECT & PRAY

The Father represents the quintessential BFF, providing insight, compassion, and direction. Rather than condemning us for our past mistakes, He exemplifies mercy and forgiveness, granting us valuable opportunities for renewal and restoration.

Father, I am amazed and overjoyed that You have chosen me to be Your friend. Help me to draw closer to You each day and to cherish the bond we share. You are truly my best friend forever.

INSIGHT

The Joy of Reunion

Many of us have experienced the excitement of reuniting with friends at an airport after a long time apart. As we eagerly wait, scanning the crowd of disembarking passengers, the moment we finally see them fills us with joy. We rush to greet them, embracing them warmly. This mutual seeking and joyful reunion reflect the essence of true friendship, a bond where both parties actively seek and cherish one another.

Zacchaeus: A Divine Appointment

The story of Zacchaeus beautifully illustrates this concept of seeking and being sought. Zacchaeus, a tax collector, climbed a sycamore fig tree in Jericho, hoping to catch a glimpse of the Lord Jesus Christ as He passed by. Though Zacchaeus sought Jesus out of curiosity, it was the Lord Who was truly seeking him. Luke 19:10: “For the Son of Man has come to seek and to save that which was lost.”

In eternity past, the Father had ordained this divine appointment. On that specific day and hour, the Lord Jesus Christ came to Jericho with the purpose of bringing salvation to Zacchaeus and his household. This was not an isolated event; throughout history, the Lord has kept countless divine appointments.

These pivotal, eternally timed moments when the Father bursts into human history include experiences of salvation, miraculous healings, and resurrections, among others. Some examples are the Samaritan woman at the well (John 4), the healing of the man born blind (John 9), and the raising of Lazarus (John 11). For the children of the King, their first encounter with Him, which led to their salvation, has already occurred; many more may still lie ahead.

The Transformative Encounter

Zacchaeus was a tax collector, a job that made him despised and hated by his community. Known for extortion and overcharging, he was seen as a notorious sinner. Yet, this did not deter the Lord Jesus Christ. Luke 19:5: “When Jesus came by, he looked up at Zacchaeus and called him by name. ‘Zacchaeus!’ he said. ‘Quick, come down! I must be a guest in your home today.’”

Zacchaeus represented the very people Jesus came to save, the lost, the outcast, and the guilty. His words to Zacchaeus were not only an invitation but also a sign of recognition and love. This simple yet powerful interaction changed Zacchaeus’s life.

Barclay captures this transformation: “Zacchaeus was wealthy, but he was not happy. Inevitably, he was lonely, for he had chosen a way that made him an outcast. He had heard of this Jesus who welcomed tax collectors and sinners, and he wondered if he would have any word for him. Despised and hated by all, Zacchaeus was reaching after the love of God.”

A Life Changed

The encounter with Jesus led Zacchaeus to renounce his sinful ways and seek reconciliation immediately. Luke 19:8-9:

“Meanwhile, Zacchaeus stood before the Lord and said, ‘I will give half my wealth to the poor, Lord, and if I have cheated people on their taxes, I will give them back four times as much!’
Jesus responded, ‘Salvation has come to this home today, for this man has shown himself to be a true son of Abraham.’”

Zacchaeus’s transformation signified a public affirmation of his repentance and newfound faith. In this remarkable moment, Jesus publicly affirmed Zacchaeus’s salvation, announcing it to all who heard. This was not merely a personal triumph for Zacchaeus; it served as a powerful testament to the redemptive power of the Lord Jesus Christ’s love.

The Nature of Salvation

The salvation that the Father offers is not based on our worthiness or merit but on His own nature and goodness. As Stanley explains, “God saves us, not because He thinks we’re smart or worthy of His Son’s work on our behalf, but because of His own nature and goodness. He saves us for His name’s sake and for His glory.”

This truth is echoed in Romans 5:7-8:


“For one will hardly die for a righteous man, though perhaps for the good man someone would dare even to die.
But God demonstrates His own love toward us, in that while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us.”

The depth of God’s love is further emphasized in John 15:13-15:

“Greater love has no one than this, that one lay down his life for his friends.”
“No longer do I call you slaves, for the slave does not know what his master is doing; but I have called you friends, for all things that I have heard from My Father I have made known to you.”

The Great Exchange

The Father invites each of us to come to Him and exchange our old, burdensome way of life for the abundant life He offers. Matthew 11:28-30: “Come to Me, all who are weary and heavy-laden, and I will give you rest. Take My yoke upon you and learn from Me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For My yoke is easy, and My burden is light.”

Through His love and grace, God offers us freedom from the weight of sin and the joy of a transformed life. Like Zacchaeus, we are called to respond to His invitation, embrace His love, and walk in the newness of life He provides.

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© Dr. H 2026

Meddling Busybodies ∙

Meddling Busybodies ∙

Meddling in someone else’s argument is as foolish as yanking a dog’s ears. – Proverbs 26:17

2 Thessalonians 3:11 We hear that some of you live idle lives, refusing to work and meddling in other people’s business.

The Nature of Busybodies

Busybodies are unwelcome advisors who repeatedly meddle in others’ affairs, often under the pretense of offering help. Their actions, though called “assistance,” are usually unsolicited, unwelcome, and ultimately unhelpful.This behavior frequently comes from dissatisfaction with their own lives, leading them to seek purpose or excitement by meddling in others’ lives.

Historical Perspectives on Idleness and Meddling

Throughout history, various cultures and thinkers have addressed the dangers of idleness and the tendency to meddle. The Romans observed, “By doing nothing, men learn to do evil.” Similarly, Isaac Watts famously wrote, “For Satan finds some mischief still, An idle mind is the devil’s workshop.”

Other proverbs and aphorisms echo this sentiment:

  • “Idleness is the thief of time.”
  • “The goat’s business is none of the sheep’s concern.”
  • “Busy souls have no time to be busybodies.”
  • “Nothing was more dangerous than people convinced of their own good intentions.”
  • “God save us from the people who want to do what’s best for us.”
  • “Those who torment us for our own good will torment us without end, for they do so with the approval of their own conscience.”

These sayings highlight the widespread recognition of the harm caused by meddling and the importance of respecting others’ autonomy.

The Fine Line Between Concern and Meddling

While showing concern or curiosity about others can be a natural way to demonstrate empathy and compassion, it becomes problematic when it becomes intrusive, repetitive, or unwanted behavior. Meddling often involves crossing boundaries, disregarding privacy, and breaking trust.

When private or personal information is shared without consent, it transforms private matters into public ones, breaking trust and damaging relationships. Respecting others’ boundaries is essential for fostering healthy interactions and maintaining mutual respect.

REFLECT & PRAY

As Charles Stanley reminds us, “The Christian life is not a nonstop parade of miracles and astonishing answers to prayer and extraordinary visions and angelic visitations. Much of it is low-key, tame, and ordinary. Yet a godly life will always be celebrated in heaven.”

Father, help me to be a faithful and sensible servant, focused on the work of Your Kingdom, so that I may be found diligent and prepared when the Lord Jesus Christ returns.

INSIGHT

The Disruption in Thessalonica

The message of the Second Coming caused an unusual and problematic situation in Thessalonica. Many Thessalonians, driven by their anticipation of Christ’s return, abandoned their daily work and gathered idly in groups, waiting for the event. This behavior disrupted everyday life and caused social unrest by ignoring their responsibilities and livelihoods.

2 Thessalonians 3:11: “For we hear that some among you are leading an undisciplined life, doing no work at all, but acting like busybodies.”

The issue was that they were not merely idle; they were also not working. That would have been problematic enough. Instead, they were actively meddling and engaging in intrusive, unnecessary activities.

The Nature of Busybodies

A busybody is an individual characterized by excessive curiosity and a tendency to interfere in the affairs of others. Such people frequently cross boundaries by inserting themselves into matters that are not their concern, displaying an unwelcome interest in the personal lives of those around them. They may ask intrusive questions, offer unsolicited advice, or get involved in situations where their input is neither necessary nor desired. 

This meddlesome behavior, often accompanied by gossip, is profoundly harmful. It has the potential to create conflict, disrupt harmony, and fracture relationships.

A Greek Wordplay on Work and Meddling

The Greek language offers a rich wordplay that “emphasizes the distinction between productive labor and unnecessary interference.” The term ergazomairefers to the concepts of “working or exerting effort,” while periergazomaicombines peri(meaning “concerning”) with ergazomai, conveying the idea of “bustling about aimlessly or meddling.”

Paul’s admonition to the Thessalonians is encapsulated in the phrase, “not working at all, but being busybodies” (mēden ergazomenous alla periergazomenous). Various translations of this statement have been made, highlighting its nuanced meaning.

  • “Who do nothing but meddle in the affairs of others.”
  • “Those whose only business is to be a busybody” (D. H. Field).
  • “Not busy at work, but busybodies [at play]” (GELNT).
  • “Minding everybody’s business but their own.”
  • “Everywhere doing everything but doing nothing.”

The Consequences of Idleness

Paul also addressed similar behavior in his letter to Timothy. 1 Timothy 5:13: “They learn to be lazy and will spend their time gossiping from house to house, meddling in other people’s business, and talking about things they shouldn’t.”

As Guthrie explains, idleness produces two harmful outcomes: “There are two unpleasant fruits of this idleness. Those concerned gad about (going about from house to house) . . .. the second result – that they become gossips and busybodies, repeating in one house what they had heard in another . . .. publicizing of a private matter, a betrayal of confidence.” 

Such behavior often has a profoundly detrimental impact on communities, eroding trust, straining close ties, and creating an environment of discord and suspicion.

Paul’s Practical Advice

To address this issue, Paul provided clear and practical guidance in 1 Thessalonians 4:11: “Make it your goal to live a quiet life, minding your own business and working with your hands, just as we instructed you before.”

The apostle Paul outlines a strategy for the Thessalonians, emphasizing that they should make it their goal to seek, as Fee describes, “consider it the honorable thing to do.” Paul encourages the Thessalonians to remain calm, realign their priorities, and dedicate themselves to meaningful and productive work. Instead of falling into laziness, they are called to lead peaceful lives and work hard.

Paul stresses that believing in the soon return of the Lord Jesus Christ is not an excuse to neglect daily duties but a motivation to deepen their commitment and purpose. A disciplined, hardworking lifestyle provides strong evidence of the vitality of the Christian faith.

The Testimony of a Godly Life

As Barclay aptly notes, “It is always true that ‘the greatest handicap the Church has is the unsatisfactory lives of professing Christians’ and equally true that the greatest argument for Christianity is a genuinely Christian life.”

Paul’s message continues to resonate today: a life of humble dedication, honoring others’ boundaries, and working faithfully is not only pleasing to God but also a powerful example to others.

The Lord Jesus Christ reminds us in Matthew 24:46: “It will be good for that servant whose master finds him doing so when he returns.”

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© Dr. H 2026

The Power of Resurrection

The Power of Resurrection

Do not be afraid any longer; only believe. – Mark 5:36

Mark 5:22-42

Then came one of the rulers of the synagogue, Jairus by name, and seeing him, he fell at his feet.

While he was still speaking, some came from the ruler’s house who said, “Your daughter is dead. Why trouble the Teacher any further?”

But overhearing what they said, Jesus said to the ruler of the synagogue, “Do not fear, only believe.”

They came to the house of the ruler of the synagogue, and Jesus saw a commotion, people weeping and wailing loudly. And when he had entered, he said to them, “Why are you making a commotion and weeping? The child is not dead but sleeping.”

And they laughed at him. But he put them all outside, took the child’s father and mother, and those who were with him, and went in where the child was.

Taking her by the hand, he said to her, “Talitha koum,” which means, “Little girl, I say to you, arise.” And immediately the girl got up and began walking (for she was twelve years of age), and they were immediately overcome with amazement.

The Reality of Cardiac Arrest

Cardiac arrest impacts nearly 600,000 people annually, with devastating outcomes. Of these, approximately 400,000 occur outside of hospitals, where the survival rate is less than 6 percent. Another 200,000 cases happen within hospitals, where the survival rate improves to 24 percent.

Every minute matters. The chances of survival decrease by 10 percent with each passing minute, making the time between the onset of cardiac arrest and the first chest compression absolutely critical.

God’s Sovereignty Over Time and Death

While timing is crucial in modern medical emergencies, it is not a limitation for the Father, the Lord God omnipotent. He reigns as the Lord of time, life, death, health, and recovery. For Him, time and death are not insurmountable barriers. They are no more than already vanquished tiny grains of sand. To the Father, death is no more than sleep, and one day, He will awaken all who rest in it. The Apostle Paul tells us in 1 Thessalonians 4:17: “After that, we who are still alive and are left will be caught up together with them in the clouds to meet the Lord in the air. And so we will be with the Lord forever.” The Apostle John adds in Revelation 20:11-12: “Then I saw a great White Throne and him who was seated on it. The earth and the heavens fled from his presence, and there was no place for them. And I saw the dead, great and small, standing before the throne, and books were opened.”

Jairus and the Urgency of Time

When Jairus’s daughter was gravely ill and death was looming, Jairus sought the ultimate intervention. He approached the Lord Jesus Christ, pleading for Him to come and lay hands on her. In Mark 5:23, Jairus pleaded earnestly with him, ‘My little daughter is dying. Please come and put your hands on her so that she will be healed and live.’”

The Lord Jesus responded and accompanied Jairus to his home. From a human perspective, time was of the essence. He needed to arrive before it was “too late.”

A Divine Interruption

On the way, however, in Mark 5:25-34, a woman suffering from an incurable condition approached the Lord Jesus Christ in desperation. She reached out in faith, touching His garment, and was instantly healed. The Lord stopped, aware that power had gone out from Him, and sought the person who had been healed. When the woman came forward, He comforted her and affirmed her faith.

This moment of spiritual triage demonstrated the Lord’s priorities. From a human perspective, the terminal condition of Jairus’s daughter seemed far more urgent than the chronic illness of the woman. Yet the Lord Jesus Christ, not limited by human assumptions or urgency, acted according to the Father’s perfect will. The Father’s ways and thoughts are higher than ours, and the Lord Jesus Christ is always in direct communication with Him, receiving direction and guidance.

The News of Death

How much time passed during this delay? Mark does not specify. But soon, devastating news arrived: Jairus’s daughter had died. From a human standpoint, it was “too late.” Yet the Lord Jesus Christ did not waver. He continued on to Jairus’s home.

Jairus must have been overwhelmed with grief, but instead of offering immediate comfort, the Lord challenged him to faith. The Father always calls us to move away from fear and toward faith, no matter how dire the circumstances.

REFLECT & PRAY

The Father is in control over everything, including every person’s expiration date. It will occur right on time. We can trust Him to carry out His perfect will, even when circumstances seem impossible.

Father, in the face of overwhelming challenges, help me trust in Your perfect timing and walk in faith rather than fear.

INSIGHT

The Resurrection of Jairus’ Daughter

This miracle was not a resuscitation or healing; it was a true resurrection, that is, someone who had died, brought back to life. The little girl’s family and friends were under no illusion about her condition; they had already begun mourning, fully recognizing that her life had ended. However, to the Lord Jesus Christ, death, the separation of the soul from the body, was nothing more than sleep.

When Jesus boldly declared, Mark 5:39: “Why are you making a commotion and weeping? The child is not dead but sleeping,” the crowd responded with mocking laughter. Their unbelief dismissed His words as absurd. As Wiersbe aptly notes, “Unbelief laughs at God’s Word, but faith lays hold of it and experiences the power of God.”

A Tender Command: “Talitha Koum”

What unfolds next is one of the most vivid and poignant moments in Scripture. The original Aramaic words spoken by Jesus are preserved, highlighting their profound significance. Gently taking the little girl’s hand, Jesus uttered the words, “Talitha Koum.” 

The term Talitha translates as “little girl,” “little lady,” or, more literally, “little lamb.” It is the feminine form of a word for “lamb” or “youth,” conveying “a sense of tenderness and endearment.” The word Koum is a command meaning “arise.” 

Hughes pictures the scene as a moment of unmatched beauty and power: the tender yet commanding voice of the Lord Jesus Christ breaking through the stillness, reaching the little girl’s lifeless ears. Her eyes flutter open, and the first thing she sees is the compassionate face of Jesus, followed by the tearful, joy-filled faces of her parents and the astonished expressions of the apostles.  

Faith Over Fear

In the face of devastating circumstances, Jairus faced a choice: faith or fear. When news of his daughter’s death reached him, his growing hope was abruptly extinguished. Mark 5:35-36: “While He was still speaking, they came from the house of the synagogue official, saying, ‘Your daughter has died; why trouble the Teacher anymore?’ But Jesus, overhearing what was being spoken, said to the synagogue official, ‘Do not be afraid any longer, only believe.’”

The horror and grief of that moment must have been overwhelming. Yet, Jesus immediately challenged Jairus to move beyond fear and embrace faith. His words, “Don’t be afraid; just believe,” rekindled Jairus’ hope and elevated his faith to a new level.

This moment is pivotal. Jairus initially approached Jesus with a simple, perhaps naive, belief that He could heal his daughter. But now, Jesus called him to a deeper faith, not just in His ability to heal but in His power to resurrect. As Hughes explains, “This was a radical call and a radical development of Jairus’ faith.”

Praying for healing in the face of illness is one thing, but standing over a lifeless body and believing in the possibility of resurrection is an entirely different act of faith. Jesus set the stage for a profound demonstration of His power over death, elevating Jairus’ faith to new heights.

The Astonishing Resurrection

When Jesus took the girl’s hand and commanded her to rise, the result was immediate. Mark 5:42: “Immediately, the girl got up and walked around. .. They were overwhelmed and totally amazed.”

The Greek word translated as “totally amazed” or “completely astonished” is existemi. This term conveys “a sense of bewildering astonishment,” literally meaning “they were out of their minds” (Constable).

This moment was truly incredible. As Hughes describes, “This was a proto-resurrection.” The gentle words and compassionate actions of the Lord Jesus Christ provide a glimpse into the future that awaits all children of the King. One day, the all-powerful and empathetic Lord Jesus Christ will call each child of the King to new life in resurrected bodies.

The Victory Over Death

The resurrection of Jairus’ daughter foreshadows the ultimate victory over death that Jesus secured for all who believe in Him. 1 Corinthians 15:57: “But thank God! He gives us victory over sin and death through our Lord Jesus Christ.”

This event powerfully reminds us of the hope and promise of resurrection life. The sting of death will be forever defeated, replaced by the eternal joy of being in the Lord’s presence.

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© Dr. H 2026