Gently correct – enduring evil ∙

Gently correct – enduring evil ∙

The anger of man does not achieve the righteousness of God. – James 1:20

2 Timothy 2:23-26

23 Again I say, don’t get involved in foolish, ignorant arguments that only start fights.
24 A servant of the Lord must not quarrel but must be kind to everyone, be able to teach, and be patient when wronged.
25 Gently instruct those who oppose the truth. Perhaps God will change those people’s hearts, and they will learn the truth.
26 Then they will come to their senses and escape from the devil’s trap. For they have been held captive by him to do whatever he wants.

The story is told of Luca, a 30-something young man who had lived in a new neighborhood for several months. He tried to get to know his neighbors. But everyone seemed too busy to do more than stop and talk for a minute or two. Jim, one of his neighbors, came over. He asked to borrow his truck. Luca was a bit miffed, thinking to himself, Jim didn’t have time to talk to me, and now he wants to borrow my truck. That’s pretty audacious.

But rather than being rude and obnoxious, Luca simply said that his truck’s tires were nearly bald, and he was afraid to let anybody drive it.

The next day, Jim visited with Luca and mentioned that he was getting new tires for his SUV. He told Luca he could have his old tires. He only needed to go by the tire store, and they would mount them for him. Luca was a little bit ashamed, but he was genuinely grateful. He thought to himself, “What a magnanimous act of kindness.”

Luca went to the tire shop and identified himself. They took his truck and told him to relax in the waiting room. When they came to get him, he was shocked to discover that they had mounted brand-new Michelin tires on his truck. Luca was puzzled and a bit concerned about the mistake that they had made. He asked where the old tires from Jim’s car were.

The shop manager said, “Jim used the story about the ‘old tires’ to get you to come into the shop. Jim bought you a brand-new set of tires as a gift.” Luca went from being a little bit ashamed to very, very ashamed. He had to rethink his attitude toward his neighbors. Someone he hardly knew was so kind to him. Luca realized that he should be kind to others in the same way. He needed to learn to restrain his unspoken critical thoughts and words.

As children of the King become more and more familiar with the Truth found in the Word of God, a strange thing happens. They begin to see themselves as correctors of others. They seek to instruct those lacking in knowledge or immature in the faith. It often becomes their mission in life to “fix” others.

Paul recognizes similar traits among learned Jewish people. They saw themselves as correctors of the foolish and teachers of the immature (Romans 2:20).

The reality is that most people don’t want to be “fixed.”

But the question is, how does the Father want the children of the King to help others and coax them to faith and maturity?

REFLECT & PRAY

“The most admirable quality among people is when we pause and think of something to say, without ripping others to shreds (even if they deserved it)” (Efrat Cybulkiewicz).

Father, teach me to be tolerant and calm rather than reactive to others’ ideas and thoughts. Encourage me to realize that Your ways are different from mine.

INSIGHT

Paul shows the way. Some conversations are useless and only lead to fights. Be selective and choose your battles carefully. What really matters and what does not? And if you engage, will the outcome be beneficial or ineffectual?

2 Timothy 2:14 [Do] not to wrangle about words. Such arguments are useless, and they can ruin those who hear them.
2 Timothy 2:23 Again, I say, don’t get involved in foolish, ignorant arguments that only start fights.

2 Timothy 2:24 A servant of the Lord must not quarrel but must be kind to everyone, be able to teach, and be patient when wronged.
2 Timothy 2:24 And the Lord’s servant must not be quarrelsome but kind to everyone, able to teach, patiently enduring evil (ESV).

The first part of the verse is pretty straightforward. Children of the King are encouraged to be kind. They are not to start quarrels or fights. A provocative, striking, and totally unpredictable appeal is at the end of the verse.

The Greek term anexikakos is translated in very diverse ways: patient when wronged, patient, not resentful, and patient with difficult people. These translations focus on the corrector, not those corrected. It’s all about their reaction when they speak to others. They must be tolerant and patient without becoming angry or upset as they contend with others. The translations attempt to mitigate the correctors’ emotional response.

But that is not what the Greek term anexikakos means. Anexikakos comes from the Greek words anecho – to bear, tolerate + kakos – evil, bad. It actually means to endure or tolerate evil. Children of the King are to be put up with evil, that is, to bear evil without resentment.

Instead of retaliating or intensifying our attempts to “correct” those who are misguided or lack information, we are encouraged to hold back, respond with kindness, and patiently present the truth.

What a shocking contrast to Paul’s instruction in Romans 12:9 to abhor what is evil.

Somehow, it just doesn’t seem right. But it is right. When we attempt to bring people from darkness to light, we do not attack the darkness. Instead, we illuminate the darkness with light. The objective is not to correct the theology or doctrine of others. It is to lead them to a greater understanding of the Father’s Truth and allow the Truth to persuade them.

Why would Paul teach such an apparently paradoxical method? Paul understood that true transformation occurs not through forceful correction but through the gentle revelation of truth. If anyone could persuade others with powerful argumentation, it was Paul. He explains,

1 Corinthians 2:2-5

2 For I decided that while I was with you, I would forget everything except Jesus Christ, the one who was crucified.
3 I came to you in weakness – timid and trembling.
4 And my message and my preaching were very plain. Rather than using clever and persuasive speeches, I relied only on the power of the Holy Spirit.
5 I did this so you would trust not in human wisdom but in the power of God.

James adds: Human anger does not produce the righteousness God desires. – James 1:20

Therefore, Paul instructs the children of the King to speak and act in a manner that may seem foreign to our natural instincts.

2 Timothy 2:25-26

25 Gently instruct those who oppose the truth. Perhaps God will change those people’s hearts, and they will learn the truth.
26 Then they will come to their senses and escape from the devil’s trap. For they have been held captive by him to do whatever he wants.

“It’s easier to treat people properly than to repair broken relationships” (Frank Sonnenberg).

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