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Potiphar’s wife soon began to look at him with lustful eyes. “Come and sleep with me,” she demanded. – Genesis 39:7
Romans 12:16-21
17 Never pay back evil with more evil. Do things in such a way that everyone can see you are honorable.
18 Do all that you can to live in peace with everyone.
19 Dear friends, never take revenge. Leave that to the righteous anger of God. For the Scriptures say, “I will take revenge; I will pay them back,” says the LORD.
20 Instead, “If your enemies are hungry, feed them. If they are thirsty, give them something to drink. In doing this, you will heap burning coals of shame on their heads.”
21 Don’t let evil conquer you, but conquer evil by doing good.
Enduring False Accusations in a Fallen World
In our broken and fallen world, it is almost inevitable that we will face false accusations at some point in our lives. These fraudulent charges can be deeply hurtful and disorienting. When wrongfully accused despite our innocence, we often experience cognitive dissonance, a state of mental conflict where we feel stunned, bewildered, and perplexed. In such moments, it is easy to let anger take over and seek revenge.
The Root of False Accusations
False accusations often arise from the accuser’s personal struggles rather than the actions of their target. These struggles may include:
- Jealousy: Envy of another’s success or favor.
- Insecurity: Llack of confidence causes individuals to project blame onto others.
- Low Self-Esteem: Feelings of inadequacy that drive individuals to tear others down.
- Revenge: Hurting or punishing someone.
- Cover-Up: Shifting blame or suspicion from yourself.
These motives often overlap, and the specific reasons can vary depending on the context and individual circumstances. Understanding these underlying motivations can help us respond with wisdom and grace rather than retaliation.
The Story of Joseph: A Model of Grace Under False Accusation
One of the most famous examples of enduring false accusations is the story of Joseph in the Book of Genesis. His life shows how God can use adversity to fulfill His greater plan.
Joseph’s troubles began with the jealousy and animosity of his brothers. They ambushed him, threw him into a pit, and sold him into slavery in Egypt. In Egypt, Joseph achieved early successes, but his life took a dramatic turn when he was falsely accused and imprisoned for doing what was right. Despite his innocence, Joseph faced this injustice with integrity.
God’s Favor in the Midst of Adversity
Joseph’s steadfast faith and trust in God helped him navigate challenges with grace when faced with false accusations. Even in prison, God’s unmistakable presence and favor shone brightly in Joseph’s life.
While incarcerated, he became a trustee and eventually the warden’s chief aide. As told in Genesis 39:21-23: “But the LORD was with Joseph in the prison and showed him his faithful love. And the LORD made Joseph a favorite with the prison warden. Before long, the warden put Joseph in charge of all the other prisoners and over everything that happened in the prison. The warden had no more worries because Joseph took care of everything. The LORD was with him and caused everything he did to succeed.”
God’s Plan Revealed Through Pharaoh’s Dream
Joseph’s story took a remarkable turn when Pharaoh had a dream that no one could interpret. One of Joseph’s former fellow prisoners, the cupbearer, remembered Joseph’s ability to interpret dreams and told Pharaoh about him.
Joseph was brought before Pharaoh, and with God’s wisdom, he interpreted the dreams (Genesis 41:16-32). Pharaoh was so impressed that he appointed Joseph to oversee the plan to save Egypt from famine.
A Lesson in Adversity
As Charles Stanley observes, “Joseph is a prime illustration of the truth that adversity is a setback from which we take our greatest leaps forward.”
Joseph’s life demonstrates that even when faced with false accusations and setbacks, the Father’s plan is always at work. He uses our trials as opportunities for His greater purpose.
Living Above Revenge
Proverbs 16:7 reminds us: “When people’s lives please the LORD, even their enemies are at peace with them.”
Joseph’s life exemplifies this truth: despite the betrayal and false accusations he endured, Joseph chose to trust God and live with integrity. His faithfulness not only brought him peace but also enabled him to be a blessing to others.
REFLECT & PRAY
Thomas à Kempis sagaciously wrote, “We must imitate Christ’s life and his ways if we are to be truly enlightened and set free from the darkness of our own hearts. Let it be the most important thing we do, then, to reflect on the life of Jesus Christ.”
Father, I want to be a peacemaker. Please help me to rise above petty revenge and respond to false accusations with wisdom and grace. Encourage me to make every effort to live in peace wherever possible. Give me the wisdom to know when to let go.
INSIGHT
Responding to Evil
As children of the King, we are called to live by a higher standard, one that reflects the character of our Heavenly Father. Seeking revenge or returning evil for evil is not the way of the Kingdom. Instead, we are instructed to trust God’s justice and respond to wrongdoing with love, grace, and goodness.
Revenge Belongs to God
The natural human response to being wronged is to fight back and to seek revenge. However, Scripture teaches us to leave vengeance in God’s hands. As Wiersbe explains:
“Returning evil for evil, or good for good, is the way most people live. But the Christian must live on a higher level and return good for evil. This requires love, because our first inclination is to fight back. It also requires faith, believing that God can work and accomplish His will in our lives and in the lives of those who hurt us.”
The Apostle Paul clearly expresses this principle in Romans 12:17,19, “Never pay back evil with evil . . .. Dear friends, never take revenge. Leave that to the righteous anger of God. For the Scriptures say, ‘I will take revenge; I will pay them back,’ says the LORD.”
The Apostle Peter follows suit in 1 Peter 3:9, “Don’t repay evil for evil. Don’t retaliate with insults when people insult you. Instead, pay them back with a blessing. That is what God has called you to do, and He will bless you for it.”
When we take matters into our own hands, we remove the opportunity for God to defend us. By trusting Him, we let His perfect justice prevail.
Love Your Enemies
The teachings of Paul and Peter echo the words of the Lord Jesus Christ, who set the ultimate example of how to respond to mistreatment.
Jesus said, Matthew 5:43-45 “You have heard the law that says, ‘Love your neighbor’ and hate your enemy. But I say, love your enemies! Pray for those who persecute you! In that way, you will be acting as true children of your Father in heaven.”
Jesus’ counsel is simple to understand but challenging to practice. Loving our enemies and praying for those who persecute us requires a heart transformed by God’s grace.
Overcoming Evil with Good
The Father has made it clear how we should respond when we are mistreated, persecuted, or falsely accused. The only way to overcome evil is with good. Reacting with vengeance only intensifies the flames of conflict.
The Apostle Paul writes in Romans 12:18-21: “Do all that you can to live in peace with everyone. Dear friends, never take revenge. Leave that to the righteous anger of God. For the Scriptures say, ‘I will take revenge; I will pay them back,’ says the LORD. Instead, ‘If your enemies are hungry, feed them. If they are thirsty, give them something to drink. In doing this, you will heap burning coals of shame on their heads.’ Don’t let evil conquer you, but conquer evil by doing good.”
Living as Peacemakers
Paul sets a very high standard for the children of the King: be peacemakers, as Romans 12:18 instructs, “Do all that you can to live in peace with everyone.” We must love our enemies and respond to evil with good. We should leave vengeance to the Lord.
However, Paul is also realistic. He acknowledges that some people may refuse to live in peace, despite our best efforts. As Kruse explains: “Recognizing that despite believers’ best efforts to live at peace, others may make it impossible, the apostle prefaces his instruction with the double qualification: ‘If it is possible, as far as it depends on you.’ Beyond that, it is no longer the believers’ responsibility if peace does not prevail.”
The Power of Goodness
Abraham Lincoln once said, “The best way to destroy an enemy is to make him a friend.”
The essence of wisdom urges us to respond to evil with goodness, reflecting the heart of God and opening the way for reconciliation and transformation. We are called to trust in the Father’s plan, just as Joseph did, understanding that even our struggles serve a greater purpose in the Father’s kingdom. In our interactions, let us strive to embody the love and grace of the King.
Have you made any new friends lately?
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