The Father’s Watchful Care ∙∙

The Father’s Watchful Care ∙∙

He will call on me, and I will answer him; I will be with him in trouble, I will deliver him and honor him. – Psalms 91:15

Psalms 91:1-6

Those who live in the shelter of the Most High will find rest in the shadow of the Almighty. This I declare about the LORD: He alone is my refuge, my place of safety; he is my God, and I trust him.

For he will rescue you from every trap and protect you from deadly disease. He will cover you with his feathers. He will shelter you with his wings. His faithful promises are your armor and protection.

Do not be afraid of the terrors of the night, nor the arrow that flies in the day. Do not dread the disease that stalks in darkness, nor the disaster that strikes at midday.

The Emotional Weight of Abandonment

Abandonment is a profoundly personal and distressing emotional state, marked by feelings of being undesired, left behind, insecure, or discarded. For those who experience it, abandonment often brings a deep sense of loss, as a vital source of support or connection is suddenly severed or withdrawn. This emotional rupture frequently carries a powerful, unspoken message to the affected individual: “You are not valuable,” “You are not important,” or “You are not worth my time and energy.”

If these feelings of rejection are left unresolved, they can spiral into a cycle of self-doubt, eroding one’s sense of self-worth and leading to shame. The emotional toll of abandonment often isn’t merely a momentary, painful sensation. Instead, it can leave lasting scars that affect how people view themselves and their relationships with others over time.

The Impact of Chronic Abandonment

While occasional feelings of being unsupported or excluded are sadly part of life in a flawed world, the impact of chronic or repeated abandonment is far more harmful. When abandonment happens frequently, it can inundate individuals with lasting heartache, deep sadness, and an overwhelming sense of loss.

Over time, the emotional toll of abandonment may cause feelings to numb as people try to shield themselves from more pain. If these wounds remain unaddressed, emotional detachment can turn into insensitivity or even self-destructive behaviors, as the weight of rejection becomes too much to bear. A common result of chronic abandonment is the development of a pervasive fear that those we depend on most will leave us in our time of need. This fear can start a cycle of insecurity that makes relationships even more complicated.

Abandonment causes

Abandonment is more than a fleeting feeling of being left out; it is a deeply rooted emotional experience that can significantly impact a person’s mental and emotional well-being. Whether it happens as a one-time event or as a recurring pattern, abandonment causes individuals to struggle with feelings of rejection, insecurity, and loss.

Recognizing our issues with abandonment is the first step toward healing and renewal. The Father offers a remarkable healing balm to every child of the King, His presence.

God’s Faithful Presence

The Father watches over the children of the King with constant love and care. Although His presence isn’t visible to our physical eyes, faith is confidence in things hoped for, the certainty of things not seen (Hebrews 11:1). He is always “there,” watching out for us and providing a deep sense of safety and security.

Psalms 33:18 reminds us, “The LORD takes notice of those who rely upon him, those who wait for him to demonstrate his faithfulness.”

As children of the King, we are deeply loved. His heart and attention are always with us, giving us a steady source of comfort and reassurance. Instead of letting feelings of distance or abandonment from others weaken us, we can find confidence in knowing that the Creator of the universe is present and values us greatly.

Christ’s Empathy

The Lord Jesus Christ truly understands the pain of abandonment. He faced rejection and abuse that far surpass what most of us can imagine. Because of this, He is uniquely qualified to support us during our moments of separation and loss.

Isaiah 53:3 describes His suffering: “He was despised, rejected, forsaken, a man of sorrows, acquainted with deepest grief. We turned our backs on him and looked away. He was despised, and we did not care.”

Christ’s experience with rejection enables Him to empathize with our struggles. As Hebrews 4:15 affirms, “For we do not have a high priest incapable of sympathizing with our weaknesses, but one who has been tempted in every way just as we are, yet without sin.” His empathy is sincere and personal, not distant or theoretical; it is grounded in His own lived experience of sorrow and rejection.

REFLECT & PRAY

The Father’s presence remains constant and close. During prayer, we link our needs with God’s abundant supply. We share our emptiness with His fullness, trusting Him to satisfy and support us. As Charles Stanley notes, “Our deficits are no match for His abundance, and our cries find a home in His ears.”

Father, thank You for the confidence and certainty You provide, as we are constantly under Your watchful care.

INSIGHT

The Father’s Protection in Life’s Darkest Valleys

The care and protection offered by the Father are profoundly illustrated in the Psalms through rich metaphorical language that highlights His role as a “refuge” and “stronghold.” Terms like “shelter,” “shadow,”“refuge,” and “fortress” create vivid imagery. The first two expressions evoke the “tender picture of a bird protecting its young beneath its wings,” as noted in Psalms 91:4, 17:8, 36:7, 57:1, and 63:7. In contrast, the words “refuge” and “fortress” evoke the “strength and security associated with a military stronghold,” as referenced in Psalms 18:2 and 61:3.

Like a bird caring for its young, offering tenderness, closeness, and comfort, He is a warm, protective shelter. Further, he is like a military fortress providing unwavering security and protection.

In Psalms 91, the Lord is depicted as a “deliverer, protector, and source of encouragement for His children.” The ultimate security of every child of the King rests solely in Him. The titles used for God in this Psalm underscore His unparalleled capacity to safeguard His people. He is referred to as “The Most High” (Elyon), emphasizing “His sovereignty as the supreme ruler,” and “The Almighty” (Shaddai),which highlights“His omnipotence.”

As children of the King, we can confidently trust Him as our refuge, fortress, and safe haven. Our King is not only powerful and reliable but also kind, compassionate, and trustworthy.

The Enemy’s Misuse of Scripture

In the New Testament, the enemy demonstrates an in-depth understanding of the Scriptures by twisting and misapplying them in an effort to tempt the Lord Jesus Christ. During the temptation in the wilderness, he misquotes and distorts Psalms 91 in an effort to provoke Jesus into testing God’s promise of protection. He challenges Jesus to jump from the temple’s pinnacle, asserting that angels will come to His aid.

The Enemy’s Misuse of Scriptureaffirms: “For He will give His angels charge concerning you, to guard you in all your ways. They will bear you up in their hands, that you do not strike your foot against a stone.”

The enemy ingeniously twists this passage, encouraging Jesus to act recklessly under the pretense of relying on divine protection. In contrast, Jesus responds decisively, effectively countering the enemy’s misrepresentation of Scripture.

Matthew 4:7 records Jesus’ reply: “The Scriptures also say, ‘You must not test the LORD your God.’”

Resisting Temptation

The Lord Jesus Christ’s reply is both terse and resolute. By quoting Scripture in the face of temptation, he successfully resists the devil’s influence while reaffirming a correct understanding of God’s promises. This encounter highlights the importance of having a deep and accurate knowledge of Scripture, which empowers the children of the King to confront and overcome deceptive temptations.

Despite being rebuffed, the enemy does not give up easily. He swiftly moves on to another temptation, demonstrating the relentless nature of his enticements. Therefore, we must remain vigilant, as the enemy’s attempts to lead us astray are persistent and unwavering.

Trusting in the Father’s Care

The Father’s protection serves as a remarkable source of security for His children, embodying both a nurturing refuge and a steadfast fortress. It offers safety and encouragement during life’s most challenging times. Despite the adversary’s attempts to manipulate Scripture and instill doubt, the example set by Jesus inspires us to stay committed to the accurate, precise interpretation of the word of God. We are encouraged to draw upon its wisdom to resist temptation and remain resilient in our faith.

In the face of ongoing challenges, we can find comfort in knowing that our King is sovereign, powerful, and always faithful. His watchful care continually reminds us of His love and commitment to us. This assurance encourages us to confront feelings of emotional abandonment with confidence. His faithfulness reminds us that, no matter others’ failures, we are never truly alone.

Trusting in the Father’s Care

Amid a world filled with abandonment and rejection, the unwavering presence of God becomes a beacon of hope and inner healing. His lovingkindness, continuous care, and deep understanding of our struggles demonstrate His active interest, involvement, and concern. Through His empathy, we are empowered to transcend feelings of isolation and embrace the truth of His enduring love.

You do not have to traverse life’s darkest valleys alone. Trusting in the Father’s protection does not eliminate hardships, but it ensures that you will never face those challenges without a shield.

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