How Much Do We Love God?

How Much Do We Love God?

We love him because he first loved us. – 1 John 4:19

1 John 4:16-19:

We know how much God loves us, and we have put our trust in his love. God is love, and all who live in love live in God, and God lives in them. And as we live in God, our love grows more perfect. So we will not be afraid on the day of judgment, but we can face him with confidence because we live like Jesus here in this world. Such love has no fear because perfect love expels all fear. If we are afraid, it is out of fear of punishment, which shows that we have not fully experienced his perfect love. We love him because he loved us first.

Love as Action, Not Emotion

What constitutes true love? For many, love is often perceived simply as an emotion, which, sadly, is frequently transient and influenced by external circumstances. However, the essence of true love goes beyond mere emotion. It is an active choice requiring continual effort, steadfastness, and intention. As Dr. Lisa Firestone explains, “Love is dynamic and requires action to thrive.”

Authentic love is demonstrated through our actions. By choosing to act with compassion, respect, tenderness, and patience, we bring our love to life. While we can control our own choices, we cannot dictate how others feel; therefore, love must be mutual. A genuine relationship thrives on this shared connection, rooted in authenticity rather than illusion.

The Danger of a Fantasy Bond

Dr. Lisa Firestone describes a “fantasy bond” as “an illusion of connection and closeness.” People can sometimes fool themselves into thinking they’re in love, even when they are emotionally distant. In these cases, surface-level aspects take over the relationship, masking the lack of genuine intimacy. This false sense of affection is hollow and fails to create a real connection. The deeper qualities of love, such as vulnerability, honesty, and shared growth, are missing.

Such illusions sometimes extend into our spiritual life. Many people imagine closeness with God but have not cultivated an authentic relationship grounded in genuine love and trust. This spiritual “fantasy bond” replaces engagement with routine, diminishing the transformative power of divine love.

How Does God Draw Us to Himself?

The Father never compels us through fear or coercion. His invitation rests on unwavering, unconditional love, offered freely without expectation of repayment. Such love is not tentative or transactional. We do not initiate our love for Him; it is a heartfelt response to the love He has already offered.

The apostle John writes in 1 John 4:10: “This is real love, not that we loved God, but that he loved us and sent his Son as a sacrifice to take away our sins.”

The Father’s love is not static; it is living, dynamic, vibrant, and deeply personal. His ultimate act of love, sacrificing His Son, demonstrates an affection that transcends human understanding. He cherishes each of His children deeply and is passionately in love with us. Recognizing this truth can profoundly transform our hearts and minds.

REFLECT & PRAY

Understanding that we are loved is one thing, but truly experiencing that love is another matter entirely. When we have a heartfelt encounter with the Father’s love, it moves us and inspires us to respond with love in return. As Marshall notes, “The more we realize and experience how much God loves us, the more we are motivated to love Him in return.”

Father, thank You for choosing to love me. Encourage me to fall in love with You more deeply each day. Help me demonstrate my love for You and for others through my words and actions.

INSIGHT

Love Without Fear

Pursuing a romantic relationship often evokes fear and hesitation, mainly because we fear our feelings might not be mutual. The threat of rejection can feel overwhelming. In contrast, our relationship with God is fundamentally different. His love for us comes first. When we reach out to Him, it’s always a response to the love He has already shown us. His gentle, kind, and steadfast faithfulness eases our fears and fills us with a comforting sense of assurance.

When we experience the warm embrace of the Father’s love, concerns about our worth and sense of belonging dissipate. Recognizing ourselves as His beloved children frees us from the fears of judgment and abandonment. His unmatched love fosters a deep sense of confidence, allowing our hearts to experience genuine peace.

1 John 4:18: “There is no fear in love; but perfect love casts out fear, because fear involves punishment, and the one who fears is not perfected in love.”

By trusting in His steadfast love and understanding our adoption into His Forever Family, a warm, soothing peace flows into our hearts and minds. With our fears about eternal destiny put to rest, we are free to enjoy His comforting presence. We break free from the chilling grip of fear that may have ensnared our hearts and souls.

Perfect Love and Maturity

The term “perfect” in 1 John 4:18 comes from the Greek teleios, meaning “complete” or “mature” rather than “flawless.” Spiritual maturity unfolds as believers grow in their understanding of God’s steadfast love.

Fear and love cannot coexist. They are fundamentally incompatible. Fear distances us from God, while love draws us closer in confidence. God’s perfect love, not our own, banishes fear and replaces it with assurance. To live in fear is to misunderstand God’s heart.

The Depth of God’s Love

But there is even more to this love. 1 John 4:8-10 declares: “God is love. God showed how much he loved us by sending his one and only Son into the world so that we might have eternal life through him. This is real love, not that we loved God, but that he loved us and sent his Son as a sacrifice to take away our sins.”

Take a moment to contemplate this profound truth: “God loves me!”  “The King of the universe loves me!” The Father not only knows us but also cherishes us deeply. He holds us in His heart and mind, constantly thinking of us and showering us with care. Charles Spurgeon marveled at this truth: that the Infinite, perfect and holy, chooses to love imperfect humanity. Such love surpasses every human bond and redefines what it means to belong.

What Fear Reveals

Fearing the Father reveals a lot about ourselves. It speaks volumes about our misunderstanding and lack of assurance in God’s love. As 1 John 4:18 reminds us, fear suggests we have not yet grasped how deeply the Father loves us. The Message translation captures this idea as “not fully convinced that he really loves us.”

Doubting his affection leads us to experience anxiety instead of peace. Yet, when we embrace and internalize the Father’s steadfast love, our fears dissipate, making way for faith and serenity. This divine love liberates us, freeing us from guilt, insecurity, and self-condemnation.

Love That Transforms

God’s love is not theoretical or sentimental; it is living and active. It is not a “fantasy bond.” It shatters illusions, heals brokenness, and casts out fear. When we accept His love as truth, it reshapes our hearts and motivates us to reflect that love in return.

The question, then, is not whether God loves us; He has already proven that through the cross, but whether we will allow His perfect love to transform our lives from the inside out.

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© Dr. H 2026

Where is My Land? ∙

Where is My Land? ∙

James, a servant of God and of the Lord Jesus Christ, To the twelve tribes in the Dispersion: Greetings. – James 1:1

Genesis 12:1-6

The LORD had said to Abram, “Leave your native country, your relatives, and your father’s family, and go to the land that I will show you. I will make you into a great nation. I will bless you and make you famous, and you will be a blessing to others. I will bless those who bless you and curse those who curse you. All the families on earth will be blessed through you.”

So Abram departed as the LORD had instructed. He took his wife, Sarai, and headed for the land of Canaan. When they arrived in Canaan, the LORD appeared to Abram and said, “I will give this land to your descendants.”

Deuteronomy 28:49-67

The LORD will bring a distant nation against you from the end of the earth, and it will swoop down on you like a vulture. They will attack your cities until all the fortified walls in your land – the walls you trusted to protect you – are knocked down. They will attack all the towns in the land the LORD your God has given you.

Though you become as numerous as the stars in the sky, few of you will be left because you would not listen to the LORD your God.

For the LORD will scatter you among all the nations from one end of the earth to the other. There you will worship foreign gods that neither you nor your ancestors have known, gods made of wood and stone! There, among those nations, you will find no peace or place to rest. And the LORD will cause your heart to tremble, your eyesight to fail, and your soul to despair. Your life will constantly hang in the balance. You will live night and day in fear, unsure if you will survive. In the morning, you will say, “If only it were night!” And in the evening, you will say, “If only it were morning!” For you will be terrified by the awful horrors you see around you.

The Story of Bruce’s Beach

Manhattan Beach, located about 25 miles southwest of Los Angeles, is a scenic oceanside community on the Pacific Coast. Its history includes a plot of land once known as Bruce’s Beach, owned by Willa and Charles Bruce, a Black couple. This land was more than just property; it represented opportunity and progress for the Bruce family. However, racial prejudice and systemic injustice eventually deprived them of their rightful ownership.

The Injustice of Eminent Domain

In the 1920s, Bruce’s Beach faced racial discrimination. The city of Manhattan Beach condemned the property, claiming it was needed for a public park. Through eminent domain, the city seized the land and offered the Bruces $14,500 in compensation, which was well below the property’s actual value. By 1927, the family was forced to leave, and two years later, the city demolished the buildings on the land.

For generations, the Bruce family and their descendants asked a simple yet powerful question: Where is my land? This question became a rallying cry for justice, as the family fought for restitution for nearly a century.

A Step Toward Justice

In September 2021, nearly 100 years after the land was taken, the Governor of California signed a bill returning Bruce’s Beach to the descendants of Willa and Charles Bruce. During the signing, the governor acknowledged past wrongs and said, “I want to apologize to the Bruce family for the injustice that was done to them. We haven’t always had a proud past.”

The land’s return marked a major moment in the fight for justice. The Bruce family’s great-grandsons later decided to sell the property back to Los Angeles County for almost $20 million, bringing closure to a long and painful chapter in their family’s history.

Faithfulness in the Face of Injustice

The story of Bruce’s Beach reminds us of God’s unwavering faithfulness, even when humans fail. While people and systems may falter, God’s nature remains constant. He stays true to His promises, bringing hope and restoration during the most difficult times.

REFLECT & PRAY

2 Timothy 2:13: “If we are unfaithful, he remains faithful, for he cannot deny who he is.”

Father, thank You for keeping Your promises. Even when we falter and become faithless, You remain faithful. Your character is unchanging, and Your justice endures through all generations.

INSIGHT

The Dispersion of the Jewish People

During the time of the New Testament, the Greek term diaspora, translated as “dispersion,” was commonly used to describe Jewish people scattered throughout the Roman Empire who lived outside the land now called Israel. This scattering started with the Assyrian conquest of the Northern Kingdom in 722 BC. The Assyrians deported the Israelites, forcing them to live in various locations within their empire. Later, in 586 BC, the two Southern Tribes of Judah were exiled to Babylon after the Babylonian conquest.

The diaspora continued to grow over the centuries. In 70 AD, after the Romans defeated the last remaining Jewish resistance at Masada, a “worldwide dispersion” began. With the Jewish people exiled from the land of Israel, other groups moved in and took control of the land that the Lord had promised to the Jewish people.

The Promise of Restoration

For nearly 2,000 years, the Jewish people lived in the diaspora, scattered around the world, often asking, “Where is my land?” However, the promise of restoration remained central to their faith and identity.

Isaiah 66:8: “Who has ever seen anything as strange as this? Who ever heard of such a thing? Has a nation ever been born in a single day? Has a country ever come forth in a mere moment?”

This prophecy predicts the miraculous rebirth of the nation of Israel. On May 14, 1948, the modern state of Israel was founded, fulfilling this ancient promise. In a single day, the Jewish people regained their homeland, marking a historic moment.

The Gathering of Israel

The restoration of Israel is not only a historical event but also a fulfillment of God’s promises as recorded in Scripture.

Ezekiel 37:21: “Thus says the Lord GOD, I will gather the people of Israel from among the nations. I will bring them home to their own land from the places where they have been scattered.”

This verse shows God’s unwavering commitment to His covenant with Israel. The gathering of the Jewish people from different nations demonstrates His faithfulness and the fulfillment of His promises.

A Time of Rejoicing in Jerusalem

The restoration of Israel is described as a time of great joy and prosperity.

Isaiah 66:9-12:

“‘Would I ever bring this nation to the point of birth and then not deliver it?’ asks the LORD. ‘No! I would never keep this nation from being born,’ says your God.’


‘Rejoice with Jerusalem! Be glad with her, all you who love her and all you who mourn for her.’ This is what the LORD says: ‘I will give Jerusalem a river of peace and prosperity. The wealth of the nations will flow to her. Her children will be nursed at her breasts, carried in her arms, and held on her lap.’


‘I will comfort you there in Jerusalem as a mother comforts her child.’”

This passage vividly illustrates the joy and abundance that will come with Israel’s restoration. Jerusalem is depicted as a mother who offers comfort, nourishment, and peace to her children. The imagery highlights the miraculous nature of this event and the blessings it will bring.

A Miraculous Birth

The prophecy of Isaiah 66:8 highlights the extraordinary nature of Israel’s rebirth: “Who has ever seen anything as strange as this? Who ever heard of such a thing? Has a nation ever been born in a single day? Has a country ever come forth in a mere moment? But Jerusalem’s children will be born before the birth pains begin.”

This Scripture describes a miraculous birth, one that occurs effortlessly and without labor pains. As Gary Smith notes, “This event is unusual both with respect to the speed of the delivery and the total absence of any pain.” The rebirth of Israel is a clear demonstration of God’s power to accomplish the impossible.

The Faithfulness of God

The restoration of Israel serves as a powerful reminder of God’s faithfulness. What God promises, He fulfills. The rebirth of the nation of Israel in 1948 is a testament to the reliability of God’s Word and His steadfast commitment to His people.

This remarkable event encourages us to reflect on God’s sovereignty and His ability to accomplish His purposes, even in the face of seemingly insurmountable obstacles.

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© Dr. H 2026

Unrestricted Generosity ∙∙

Unrestricted Generosity ∙∙

Give, and it will be given to you. They will pour into your lap a good measure – pressed down, shaken together, and running over. – Luke 6:38

Deuteronomy 15:7-11

But if there are any poor Israelites in your towns when you arrive in the land the LORD your God is giving you, do not be hard-hearted or tightfisted toward them.

Instead, be generous and lend them whatever they need. Do not be mean-spirited and refuse someone a loan because the year for canceling debts is close at hand. If you refuse to make the loan and the needy person cries out to the LORD, you will be considered guilty of sin.

Give generously to the poor, not grudgingly, for the LORD your God will bless you in everything you do. There will always be some in the land who are poor. That is why I am commanding you to share freely with the poor and with other Israelites in need.

The Toddler’s Creed: A Reflection on Selfishness

The “Toddler’s Creed” captures the self-centered mindset of a two-year-old:

  • If I want it, it’s mine.
  • If I give it to you and I change my mind later, it’s mine.
  • If I can take it away from you, it’s mine.
  • If I had it a little while ago, it’s mine.
  • If it’s mine, it will never belong to anybody else, no matter what.
  • If we are building something together, all the pieces are mine.
  • If it looks like mine, it is mine.

This anonymous way of thinking provides a glimpse into the egocentric world of toddlers, who believe the universe revolves around them. Sharing is a foreign concept, and their favorite word is “No.”  Their motto is simple: “me,” “I want,” and “I can.”

This stage of life, often called the “Terrible Twos,” is a natural developmental phase. With patience and guidance, most children outgrow it. But sadly, for many, this self-centered mindset persists into adulthood.

The Paradox of Generosity

Human nature is inherently selfish. We are born grasping, greedy, and self-focused, always trying to hold on tightly to what we have. However, there is a paradox in giving generously. True generosity requires a shift from selfishness to selflessness, a change that is both challenging and deeply fulfilling.

This idea isn’t about the broad command to love your neighbor as yourself, as seen in Luke 10:29-37, but rather a more specific and focused instruction. The Law of Moses offers clear guidance on generosity toward those within the community of faith.

Generosity in the Law of Moses

The Law of Moses clearly emphasized the importance of generosity. In Deuteronomy 15:11, the Father commanded the Israelites: “You shall freely open your hand to your brother, to your needy and poor in your land.”

Upon closer examination, observe that this law was not a broad call to help all the poor. Deuteronomy 15:12 explains that it was an exclusive directive regarding the treatment of Hebrew servants, “If your brother, a Hebrew man or a Hebrew woman, is sold to you, he shall serve you six years, and in the seventh year you shall let him go free from you.” The Israelites were expected to treat one another with a level of dignity and compassion that stemmed from their shared identity and status as God’s covenantal people.  

This exclusivity reflects the unique relationship between God and His chosen people as outlined in the covenant made at Mount Sinai. The law’s protections and provisions for release did not extend to non-Hebrew servants. Foreigners or non-Israelites who became servants were subject to different rules, as they were not part of the covenant community.

This passage emphasizes what can be called “restricted, unrestricted generosity,” a thoughtful way of giving that balances compassion with practicality.  

Practical Generosity: Wisdom in Giving

Theodore Roosevelt once said, “Be practical as well as generous in your ideals. Keep your eyes on the stars but remember to keep your feet on the ground.” This wisdom reminds us that while generosity is noble, it must also be sustainable. Giving away a fish may feed someone for a day, but giving away your only fishing rod could leave both people in need.

The Father’s command in Deuteronomy 15:9 is clear: “Do not be mean-spirited and refuse someone a loan because the year for canceling debts is close at hand. If you refuse to make the loan and the needy person cries out to the LORD, you will be considered guilty of sin.”

Take a moment to review Deuteronomy 15:7-15. It means exactly what it says. It’s long overdue for us to honestly think this through. We should develop the habit of practicing both restricted and unrestricted generosity. Inside ourselves, we should have a soft heart and an open hand. Let that sink in. This is not merely a suggestion but an absolute requirement. Under the law of Moses, refusing to help those in need within the covenant community is considered sin.

Why be generous and have compassion toward servants? Deuteronomy 15:15 explains: “Remember that you were once slaves in the land of Egypt and the LORD your God redeemed you! That is why I am giving you this command.”

The Theological Foundation of Generosity

Critics might argue that such laws are impractical or financially unfeasible. However, the law in Deuteronomy was motivated not by practicality but by God’s character. Justice and kindness are fundamental to His nature, and these qualities are reflected in His commands. As Hall notes, “Deuteronomy’s law was not driven by practicality or economic necessity but by God’s character. Justice and generosity were its hallmarks.” Although the Mosaic Law no longer binds believers today, the principles of justice and generosity remain timeless.

REFLECT & PRAY

The well-known proverb reminds us: “Give someone a fish; you feed him for a day. Teach them to fish, and they will feed themselves.” This balance between immediate help and long-term empowerment reflects the heart of biblical generosity. It is not about reckless giving but about thoughtful, intentional acts of kindness that reflect the character of God.

Father, how many times have I held back because of my own self-centeredness? My guess is without measure. I want to be just like You. You demonstrated remarkable and undeniable softness of heart and openness of hand. How do I make this work? Seek wisdom and guidance from the Father.

INSIGHT

Offering Our Best to the Father and Secondhand Pianos

Why do churches often have secondhand pianos? The answer is simple: we buy a new piano for our homes and donate the old one to the church, often with a tax deduction as an added benefit. Although this practice might be practical, it reveals a deeper issue: our tendency to give God our leftovers instead of our finest gifts.

The Father’s Outrage at Halfhearted Offerings

In the book of Malachi, the Father expresses His displeasure with Israel for dishonoring Him by offering less than their best. Malachi 1:6-14 captures His frustration:

“A son honors his father, and a servant respects his master. If I am your father and master, where are the honor and respect I deserve? You have shown contempt for my name! ‘But you ask, how have we ever shown contempt for your name?’

How I wish one of you would shut the Temple doors so that these worthless sacrifices could not be offered! I am not pleased with you,” says the LORD of Heaven’s Armies, “and I will not accept your offerings.

But you dishonor my name with your actions. By bringing contemptible food, you are saying it’s all right to defile the Lord’s table.

You say, ‘It’s too hard to serve the LORD,’ and you turn up your noses at my commands,” says the LORD of Heaven’s Armies. “Think of it! Animals that are stolen, crippled, and sick are being presented as offerings! Should I accept such offerings as these from you?” asks the LORD.

“Cursed is the cheat who promises to give a fine ram from his flock but then sacrifices a defective one to the Lord. For I am a great king,” says the LORD of Heaven’s Armies, “and my name is feared among the nations!”

These verses depict the Father’s profound disappointment and anger due to the people’s shameful lack of reverence. Instead of offering their best, they presented stolen, crippled, and sick animals as sacrifices. Their actions showed contempt for God’s name and commandments, turning worship into a hollow ritual.

The Call to Honor God with Generosity

Malachi’s words challenge us to examine our own offerings to God. Do we give Him our best, or do we offer what is convenient, leftover, or secondhand? The Father deserves honor, respect, and the very best of what we have, not out of obligation, but as acts of love and gratitude.

We may grudgingly pay our taxes because we are required to, but when it comes to God, the question is not about obligation but about devotion. Of all that we have, what does not belong to the Father? The answer is simple: nothing. Everything we have is His, and recognizing this truth is the first step toward cultivating a heart of generosity.

Becoming Like Our Generous Father

Our Heavenly Father is generous beyond measure, and He desires for us to mirror His character. True generosity is not about giving out of abundance or convenience; it’s about sharing with a soft heart and an open hand. It’s about giving our best, not because we have to, but because we want to honor the One who has given us everything.

As John Bunyan wisely said, “You have not lived today until you have done something for someone who can never repay you.” This kind of selfless giving reflects God’s heart and brings us closer to His likeness.

A Life of Generous Worship

The Father’s call to give our best is not merely about financial contributions; it reflects the attitude of our hearts. It challenges us to lead a life of worship that honors God in every aspect of our lives: through our time, resources, and actions. When we give with generosity and sincerity, we not only showcase the greatness of our King but also honor His name.

Rooted in God’s justice and love, generosity serves as a powerful testament to His grace and provision. It inspires us to rise above selfishness and adopt a lifestyle marked by genuine compassion and open-handedness.

How is Such Generosity Achieved?

The Macedonian churches, despite their poverty, demonstrated that their giving was rooted in a deeper spiritual act: they first gave themselves to the Lord. They intentionally placed the Lord at the center of their lives, allowing Him to guide their decisions, priorities, and actions. This surrender is not partial or conditional; it is a wholehearted commitment to live in alignment with God’s will and purpose. Their generosity, freely and joyfully given, was an expression of their devotion to God. 

Paul explains in 2 Corinthians 8:1-5: Now I want you to know, dear brothers and sisters, what God in his kindness has done through the churches in Macedonia. They are being tested by many troubles, and they are very poor. But they are also filled with abundant joy, which has overflowed in rich generosity. For I can testify that they gave not only what they could afford, but far more. And they did it of their own free will. They begged us again and again for the privilege of sharing in the gift for the believers in Jerusalem. They even did more than we had hoped, for their first action was to give themselves to the Lord and to us, just as God wanted them to do.

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© Dr. H 2026

Payback ∙

Payback ∙

Don’t repay evil for evil. Don’t retaliate with insults when people insult you. Instead, pay them back with a blessing. That is what God has called you to do. – 1 Peter 3:9

Matthew 5:38-41

You have heard the law that says the punishment must match the injury: “An eye for an eye, and a tooth for a tooth.” But I say, do not resist an evil person!

If someone slaps you on the right cheek, offer the other cheek also. If you are sued in court, and your shirt is taken from you, give your coat, too. If a soldier demands that you carry his gear for a mile, carry it two miles.

The Negative Connotation of Payback

The term “Payback” often has a negative connotation, evoking ideas of retribution, revenge, or getting even. When we experience wrongs, the natural human instinct is to retaliate, giving back injury for injury. This urge seems deeply rooted in human nature, as if it were embedded in our very DNA. However, for children of the King, this is not the way we are called to live.

The Law of Retaliation in the Old Testament

The Old Testament introduced the “Law of Retaliation,” or Lex Talionis, which is often misunderstood and misinterpreted. This principle is outlined in Exodus 21:23-25: “But if there is further injury, the punishment must match the injury: a life for a life, an eye for an eye, a tooth for a tooth, a hand for a hand, a foot for a foot, a burn for a burn, a wound for a wound, a bruise for a bruise.”

This law was not intended to promote revenge but to ensure justice. Its purpose was to maintain fairness and prevent punishments that were too harsh or unfair. According to the law of Moses, the punishment was meant to match the crime, forming a system of proportional justice. This principle also protected against the abuse of power by individuals of higher status, wealth, or authority, who might otherwise seek excessive revenge.

The Misuse of Retaliation

Unfortunately, for those who lived outside the law or disobeyed it, retaliation often became harsh and unfair. A notable example of this is found in the story of Lamech. In Genesis 4:23-24: “One day, Lamech said . . . I have killed a man who attacked me, a young man who wounded me. If someone who kills Cain is punished seven times, then the one who kills me will be punished seventy-seven times!”

Here, Lamech boasts about his excessive, disproportional response to an injury, illustrating how a lack of restraint can lead to escalating cycles of violence and revenge.

A More Excellent Way

The following quote is attributed to Abraham Lincoln, although variations appear in older sources as well. “The best way to get rid of an enemy is to turn him into a friend.” It asserts that reconciliation and understanding are more powerful than conflict.

The essence of the quote is that resolving hostility through empathy and respect not only removes an opponent but also creates an ally. It embodies a philosophy rooted in diplomacy, moral strength, and emotional intelligence, emphasizing that peace built through kindness lasts longer than victory achieved through force. It highlights a deep principle of reconciliation and transformation. It underlines the power of grace, kindness, compassion, and understanding to dissolve hostility and turn it into friendship. Instead of continuing cycles of revenge or hatred, this approach aims to build bridges and promote peace.

In one anecdote, when someone urged Lincoln to be harsher and “destroy” his enemies, he is said to have replied, “Do I not destroy my enemies when I make them my friends?”

This idea aligns with Romans 12:20-21, which states, “If your enemies are hungry, feed them. If they are thirsty, give them something to drink. In doing this, you will heap burning coals of shame on their heads. Don’t let evil conquer you, but conquer evil by doing good.”

REFLECT & PRAY

Children of the King are called to rise above the natural human impulse for retaliation. This perspective reflects the transformative power of grace and forgiveness, which replaces the desire for payback with a commitment to reconciliation and blessing.

Father, I want to be like the Lord Jesus Christ. Encourage me not to seek my own revenge or payback, but to bless those responsible.

INSIGHT

Responding to Evil with Good

The Lord Jesus Christ redefined the meaning of justice and raised the standard for His followers to an extraordinary level. In Matthew 5:38-39, He said: “You have heard the law that says the punishment must match the injury: An eye for an eye, and a tooth for a tooth. But I say, do not resist an evil person! If someone slaps you on the right cheek, offer the other cheek also.”

This teaching challenges the natural human inclination toward retaliation and introduces a radical call to respond to wrongdoing with grace and restraint. Simply reflecting on this teaching may evoke a pang of ambivalent feeling deep inside. While the Old Testament law of retaliation ensured proportional justice, Jesus calls His followers to transcend this principle, embodying forgiveness and peace.

Living at Peace with Others

Children of the King are called to pursue peace whenever possible. As stated in Hebrews 12:14, “Insofar as it is possible, we are called to live at peace with everyone.” And also, Romans 12:17 “Never pay back evil for evil to anyone. Respect what is right in the sight of all men.”

This does not mean passively accepting wickedness but rather standing up against evil with righteousness. As Mounce explains, “Wickedness is to be opposed, and righteousness lauded.”

Mounce further emphasizes that “our most powerful weapon against evil is the good. To respond to evil with evil is not to overcome it but to add to it. Believers are called upon to live victoriously in a hostile world by continuing to live as Jesus lived. Right will inevitably prevail against wrong. God is on his throne, and though all is not right in this world, he is the one who will avenge the wicked and reward the righteous.”

The Call to Bless, Not Retaliate

1 Peter 3:9 reinforces this principle: “Don’t repay evil for evil. Don’t retaliate with insults when people insult you. Instead, pay them back with a blessing. That is what God has called you to do, and he will bless you for it.”

Children of the King are strongly advised not to repay evil with evil or insult with insult. This teaching, while remarkable, reflects the high standard set by the Lord Jesus Christ Himself. Peter and Paul, along with other New Testament writers, echo this divine expectation.

Understanding the Language of Retaliation

The Greek word translated as “payback,” “repay,” or “return” is apodidomi, which means “to give back, return, or recompense based on what a person deserves.” It conveys the idea of “responding to someone’s actions with a corresponding reaction, whether as a reward or punishment.”

Similarly, the Greek word for “insult” or “cursing” is loidoria. Loidoria connotes “harsh, reproachful, or slanderous speech.” It refers to “verbal abuse intended to harm someone’s reputation, reviling, slander, or speaking in a highly insulting manner.” Alternative translations clarify this teaching: “If people do evil to you, you should not do evil to them, or if people curse you, you should not curse them.” Another way to express this is, “Do not retaliate against people who do evil by doing evil to them, and do not retaliate against those who curse you by cursing them” (UBS).

Responding with Blessing

Instead of retaliating, believers are called to respond with a blessing. This means asking God to bless those who harm or curse them, or as UBS puts it, “Ask God to be good to them.” The idea can also be expressed as “Pay back with good” (Phillips) or “Speaking well of those who curse.” Believers are exhorted to intercede for their persecutors and ask for God’s blessings upon them.

Christ’s Example of Forgiveness

The Lord Jesus Christ did not merely teach these lofty standards; He lived them out. His life serves as the ultimate model of responding to mistreatment with grace and love. In Luke 6:35, He taught His followers to love their enemies, and in His final moments, He demonstrated this teaching in action.

Luke 23:34 records His words on the cross: “Father, forgive them; for they do not know what they are doing.”

This profound act of forgiveness exemplifies the seemingly impossible standard He set for His followers. It is a call to rise above human instincts and reflect the character of God.

The Power to Live Like Christ

How can children of the King live up to such a high standard? Paul addresses this question in Philippians 3:10, where he expresses his desire to know Christ and emulate Him: “I want to know Christ and experience the mighty power that raised him from the dead. I want to suffer with him, sharing in his death.”

Paul’s words emphasize the source of strength for living out Christ’s teachings. It is through God’s power, available to children of the King, that they can choose to respond to evil with good, to bless instead of curse, and to forgive rather than retaliate. This transformative power allows believers to reflect Christ’s love and grace in a broken and hostile world.

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© Dr. H 2026

Our New Creation – A Paradigm Shift

Our New Creation – A Paradigm Shift

This means that anyone who belongs to Christ has become a new creation. The old life is gone; a new life has begun! – 2 Corinthians 5:17

Romans 6:4 Just as Christ was raised from the dead by the glorious power of the Father, now we also may live new lives.

Ephesians 4:22-24

Throw off your old sinful nature and your former way of life, which is corrupted by lust and deception. Instead, let the Spirit renew your thoughts and attitudes. Put on your new nature, created to be like God – truly righteous and holy.

The Origin and Meaning of “Paradigm Shift”

The term “paradigm shift” is widely used in modern discourse across various fields, but its origins and precise meaning are often overlooked. Thomas Kuhn, a twentieth-century physicist and philosopher of science (1922–1996), introduced the term in his groundbreaking 1962 work, The Structure of Scientific Revolutions. To grasp the concept of a paradigm shift, it is essential first to understand what a paradigm is.

A paradigm refers to a framework or model that encompasses a set of beliefs, assumptions, and practices guiding scientific inquiry and research within a specific discipline. It serves as a “conceptual framework,” shaping the accepted theories and methodologies that influence how scientists approach and understand their work.

A paradigm shift, then, represents a fundamental transformation in the underlying assumptions, concepts, and approaches of a scientific discipline. It occurs when a new framework or scientific paradigm replaces the old one. For instance, the shift from Ptolemaic astronomy to Copernican astronomy, or the replacement of Newtonian physics by Einstein’s theories, exemplifies such revolutionary changes.

Expansion Beyond Science

Over time, the concept of a paradigm shift extended beyond the realm of science, finding application in the social sciences and popular culture. Today, it is often used to describe any revolutionary or dramatic change in thought, perspective, or practice.

A Spiritual Paradigm Shift: Becoming a New Creation

For children of the King, the experience of becoming a follower of Christ represents the most profound paradigm shift of all. Unfortunately, many children of the King fail to recognize fully or live out the implications of this transformation.

2 Corinthians 5:17 states, “If anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation.” This verse highlights the radical change that occurs when a person becomes a child of the King.

The phrase “in Christ” appears 27 times in Paul’s writings and carries rich theological significance. Practically, being in Christ signifies a personal relationship with the Lord Jesus Christ, rooted in faith and identification with His death, burial, and resurrection. This relationship marks a dramatic departure from the old way of life, bringing about a radical transformation in how we think, live, and relate to others.

The Greek Perspective on “New Creation”

The Greek word translated as “creation, creature, being, or person” in 2 Corinthians 5:17 is ktisis. In Paul’s writings, ktisis almost always refers to“creation rather than creature.” The Greek phrase kainos ktisis is translated as “new creation.” Notably, this phrase lacks a verb or pronoun, which is why translators often supply “he is” or “there is” to complete the sentence in English.

This new creation represents a complete transformation of a person’s life and identity. As Murray J. Harris explains, “Whenever a person comes to be part of the body of Christ by faith, there is a new act of creation on God’s part. One set of conditions or relationships has passed out of existence; another set has come to stay.”

REFLECT & PRAY

This spiritual paradigm shift is not merely theoretical; it’s meant to be experienced in every aspect of life. Being in Christ means adopting a new mindset, new actions, and a new way of relating to others, all fueled by the transformative power of God’s grace. It’s a call to leave behind old habits and embrace the freedom and purpose that come from being a new creation in Christ.

Father, thank You for providing a whole new way for me to live. I can hardly take it in. I am no longer a prisoner of the past. I have been redeemed and set free to live a new life because of my relationship with the Lord Jesus Christ. Encourage me to make it so.

INSIGHT

A Life Left Behind

2 Corinthians 5:17 states, “Old things have passed away; behold, new things have come.” But what are these “old things”? They represent the characteristics of our lives before becoming children of the King. The Revised English Bible (REB) translates this as “the old order,” emphasizing the outdated and obsolete nature of our former ways.

The term archaios, translated as “old,” refers to “something ancient, existing since the beginning, but now outdated and irrelevant.” It is similar to relics of the past, like polyester leisure suits, tie-dyed everything, or avocado-colored kitchen appliances, once trendy in the 1970s but now painfully outdated compared to what’s new and current. This vivid imagery highlights the stark contrast between the old creation and the new. The transformation experienced by a believer in Christ is as dramatic as night and day, leaving no room for comparison.

Freedom from the Past

In Christ, we are no longer prisoners of our past, bound by mistakes, shame, or darkness. The limits of yesterday no longer define us. We are not victims of our history but are redeemed and freed from everything that once held us captive. This freedom enables us to embrace a new identity and purpose, unburdened from what once shackled us.

A New Perspective  

Barclay observes, “To Paul, the Christian is, in his favorite phrase, in Christ; and therefore, the old self of the Christian died in that death, and a new person arose, as new as if freshly created by the hands of God.” This transformation brings about a revised set of standards in which Christians no longer evaluate based on worldly criteria.

Paul, who once saw Christ through a human lens while trying to wipe out the Christian faith, experienced a deep perspective transformation after his conversion. The Lord Jesus Christ, whose memory Paul once sought to destroy, became, in his eyes, the most incredible person in existence. Through Christ, Paul began a relationship, a friendship with God, something he had longed for his entire life.

The Call to Put on the New Nature

Colossians 3:9-10 declares, “You have stripped off your old sinful nature and all its wicked deeds. Put on your new nature and be renewed as you learn to know your Creator and become like him.”

The Scriptures highlight the staggering implications of being in Christ. It is not merely a change in belief but a complete paradigm shift, a radical transformation of life. The focus shifts from self to Christ, and the believer is called to look forward instead of backward. This Christ-centered life requires ongoing renewal and growth as we come to know our Creator better and become more like Him.

Pressing Forward Toward the Goal

Philippians 3:13-14 states, “Forgetting what lies behind and reaching forward to what lies ahead, I press on toward the goal for the prize of the upward call of God in Christ Jesus.”

Paul’s writings underscore the dynamic nature of the Christian life. He encourages us to leave the past behind and concentrate on the future, actively fulfilling God’s calling. Barclay notes that while Paul could have delved into deep theological concepts or pursued new intellectual challenges, he remained committed to practical application. His letters often conclude with compelling ethical directives that motivate the children of the King to embody their faith in their everyday lives.

The Demand for Radical Transformation

Barclay notes that Paul’s message is clear and straightforward: “Put to death every part of yourself which is against God and keeps you from fulfilling his will.” This command demands a complete transformation of our desires and actions. Anything that hinders full obedience to God or submission to Christ must be carefully and intentionally removed. The Christian life involves not partial change but total renewal.

Living a New Life in Christ

Romans 6:4 reminds us, “Just as Christ was raised from the dead by the glorious power of the Father, now we also may live new lives.” This verse captures the essence of the believer’s transformation. Just as Christ’s resurrection represents victory over death, the child of the King’s new life signifies triumph over the old self. It is a life empowered by God’s, marked by renewal, and centered on fulfilling His purpose.

A Life Transformed

The transformation into a new creation in Christ is not merely a superficial adjustment. Instead, it is a deep, profound, and life-altering shift. Entirely new possibilities open up to children of the King. We are called to leave behind our former ways and embrace a life centered in Christ. Such a major perspective transformation redefines one’s identity, purpose, and values, allowing us to fully experience the freedom and richness of our renewed life in Him.

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© Dr. H 2026