
Out of tragedy ∙∙
Abraham never wavered in believing God’s promise. In fact, his faith grew stronger, and in this he brought glory to God. – Romans 4:20
1 Samuel 30:1-6
1 David and his men arrived home at their town of Ziklag, they found that the Amalekites had made a raid into the Negev and Ziklag; they had crushed Ziklag and burned it to the ground.
2 They had carried off the women and children and everyone else but without killing anyone.
3 When David and his men saw the ruins and realized what had happened to their families,
4 they wept until they could weep no more.
6 David was now in great danger because all his men were very bitter about losing their sons and daughters, and they began to talk of stoning him. But David found strength in the LORD his God.
Our world is often filled with sorrow and disappointment. Sometimes, these hardships feel distant, affecting those we don’t personally know. However, at other times, they are very close and personal. Over the past few years, our world and nation have been battered by natural disasters like floods, tornadoes, hurricanes, and earthquakes. Recently, planet Earth has been stricken with global riots and a deadly, devastating global pandemic. The damage and loss of life are horrendous.
“If you want God’s best in your life and you want to make your life count, then you can expect to travel the road of adversity. It’s always there. And it’s amazing how somehow God uses adversities in our life to shape us, to make us fit, and to equip us to do the things that He desires to do in us and through us in life. And when you think about what adversity is, adversity is those ‘dark moments’ in our life” (Stanley).
The Father uses these challenging times and periods of darkness to grow and mature. Outer turbulence and its consequent inner turmoil are the raw materials from which strength of character and inner resolve are birthed and developed: from crisis comes courage, from tragedy, trust, from failure, faith, and from loss of leadership.
The dark moments are those times that may last for days, weeks, months, even years when “We feel depressed, anxious, fearful, thoughtless, sinful, you name it. All those things a person goes through” (Stanley).
These “dark moments” are inevitable. We cannot run, and we cannot hide. The question we must continually answer for ourselves is, how will we respond to them? It is so easy to become discouraged because of our difficulties and hardships. The road to anger, bitterness, and depression is short. But there is another path.
1 Samuel 30:6 David drew strength from the LORD his God.
Instead of wallowing in despair, David turns to the Father. He sought solace in the Father through prayer and worship. This character quality marked David’s entire life and made him a man of faith and a great leader. The Father honed David’s leadership skills and groomed him for the throne. David abandoned his own poor, faulty, and limited perspective. He had mastered the art of viewing things from the Father’s perspective. Even amid the “dark moments” that the Father introduced into his life, David had learned to see the end.
REFLECT & PRAY
Isaiah 46:9-10
9 Remember the things I have done in the past. For I alone am God! I am God, and there is none like me.
10 Only I can tell you the future before it even happens. Everything I plan will come to pass, for I do whatever I wish.
Father help me exchange my paltry and insufficient perspective for Yours. You see the end from the beginning and are always at work to accomplish Your will on Earth as it is in heaven.
INSIGHT
In this world, adversity, hardship, trouble, and times of darkness are unavoidable.
Job 5:7 For man is born for trouble, as sparks fly upward.
While many people allow adversity to morph into insurmountable challenges and setbacks, remarkably, others stand firm with confidence in the faithfulness of the Father. The latter has an overwhelming sense of stability and immovable strength. They weather the storm, head held high, confident, bold, not repressing anything. They feel certain their Father will see them through the heartache and bring them out whole, joyful, and more mature on the other side (Stanley).
Where is the Father when we are in the midst of adversity? Can we trust Him when He says He will never leave us or forsake us?
The Father is always with us in our adversity. Adversity is the barometer He uses to reveal to us our current level of faith and trust. However, He doesn’t leave us in these challenging times. As we learn to respond appropriately and withstand the “dark moments,” the Father cultivates our faith and trust.
The pivotal question for each of us is, do we genuinely want to worship the Father and bring glory and honor to Him? Our adversities mold our godly spiritual character. Adversity shouldn’t be seen as a sign of failure but rather as proof of an ongoing transformation. We are “a work in progress.” To be fully prepared for service, the children of the King must experience and endure heartache, disappointment, and pain. He uses these “dark times” to shape and refine us.
The Father has a specific plan for each child of the King as He shapes us and conforms us into the image of Lord Jesus Christ. He permits adversity only for as long as it serves its purpose. Once its role is fulfilled, He removes it (Stanley).
Hardship and sorrow are like a gas-powered lawnmower. Eventually, the lawnmower runs out of gas and ceases to run.
“The dark moments of our life last only as long as is necessary for God to accomplish His purpose. So, there is a limitation on them. There is a purpose for them. There’s a very specific purpose. They last only as long as is necessary for God to accomplish His purpose” (Stanley).
This often leaves us pondering numerous questions. “What is my purpose?” “What is His plan for my life?” Do not be surprised if the Father does not tell you. What He wants from you is your trust.
Remember, He alone is God, and there is none like him. Everything He plans will come to pass, for He can do whatever He wishes (Isaiah 46:9-10).
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© Dr. H 2024