Looking Back ∙∙

Looking Back ∙∙

Anyone who puts a hand to the plow and then looks back is not fit for the Kingdom of God. – Luke 9:62

Philippians 3:7-14

I once thought these things were valuable, but now I consider them worthless because of what Christ has done. Yes, everything else is worthless compared to the infinite value of knowing Christ Jesus, my Lord. For his sake, I have discarded everything else, counting it all as garbage, so that I could gain Christ and become one with him.

I want to know Christ and experience the mighty power that raised him from the dead. I want to suffer with him, sharing in his death.

I don’t mean to say that I have already achieved these things or that I have already reached perfection. But I press on to possess that perfection for which Christ Jesus first possessed me.

Plowing: A Metaphor for Discipline

Plowing is a crucial farming task that involves turning, loosening, and aerating the top layer of soil. This process mixes organic matter, like manure, into the soil, boosting its nutrient levels. As a result, plowing creates a suitable environment for seedlings to establish roots more easily. It also clears crop residue and weeds, preparing the field for a fruitful growing season and harvest.

However, plowing is not a straightforward activity. The condition of the soil is very important. If the soil is too wet, it clumps into hard, rock-like masses when it dries. If it’s too dry, plowing becomes as tough as working on asphalt. Maintaining proper moisture balance is essential for a smooth and efficient process.

Plowing also requires careful planning. Farmers must map out their route, deciding where to stop and turn their equipment. It is crucial to maintain a steady gaze on a fixed target at the opposite end of the field. This focus helps ensure straight, even rows. Looking back can cause one to veer off course and waste effort, or, in the worst cases, lead to significant crop loss. Attention to detail throughout plowing is vital for maximizing yield and managing resources effectively.

Discipleship: The Hard Work of Focus and Sacrifice

Discipleship is akin to the demanding task of plowing, requiring steady focus, unwavering discipline, and significant sacrifices. Just as a farmer must fix their gaze on a distant point to create straight rows, disciplers need to remain committed to the kingdom of God. The distractions and busyness of everyday life can easily disrupt this focus, leaving one unprepared for the responsibilities of discipleship. True discipleship requires complete and unwavering dedication to fulfilling the Father’s will.

Philippians 3:13: “Brothers and sisters, I do not consider myself to have attained this. Instead, I am single-minded: Forgetting the things that are behind and reaching out for the things that are ahead.”

Disciplers are individuals who take on the responsibility of guiding and mentoring others in their spiritual journey, helping them grow in their faith and commitment to Christ’s teachings. Similar to a teacher or coach, they invest time, energy, and wisdom in their disciples, modeling Christ-like behavior and offering encouragement, accountability, and instruction. The goal is to foster transformation and equip others to live out their faith and, in turn, disciple others.  

Disciplers must exhibit patience, humility, and a deep understanding of the Scriptures, as their influence shapes the spiritual growth and maturity of those they mentor.

REFLECT & PRAY

In this world, success is measured by accomplishments. The more we achieve, the more successful we are perceived to be. However, in the Father’s kingdom, it is not so.

Father, please help me focus on the things that truly matter and guide me to remain steadfast in my pursuit of them.

INSIGHT

The Challenge of Discipleship

Discipleship is not for the faint of heart. It requires dedication, discipline, and clear priorities. Similar to becoming a world-class athlete or musician, discipleship involves a master-apprentice relationship. The Lord Jesus Christ is the master, and the children of the King are His apprentices. To follow Him means putting His teachings, directives, and demands above all else, even above the claims of daily life and family. These requirements are among His “hard teachings,” but they are essential for those who want to walk in His footsteps.

The Cost of Following Christ

Many express a desire to be disciples, but hidden issues often surface when the cost becomes clear. This is evident in the account of three individuals in Luke 9:57-62:
“As they were walking along, someone said to Jesus, ‘I will follow you wherever you go.’ But Jesus replied, ‘Foxes have dens to live in, and birds have nests, but the Son of Man has no place even to lay his head.’

He said to another person, ‘Come, follow me.’ The man agreed, but he said, ‘Lord, first let me return home and bury my father.’ But Jesus told him, ‘Let the spiritually dead bury their own dead! You must go and preach about the Kingdom of God.’

Another said, ‘Yes, Lord, I will follow you, but first let me say goodbye to my family.’ But Jesus told him, ‘Anyone who puts a hand to the plow and then looks back is not fit for the Kingdom of God.’”

Each of these individuals faced a unique challenge:

  • The first man was eager to follow until he understood the cost, relinquishing the comforts of home.
  • The second man was called but hesitated, putting family obligations above the call to discipleship.
  • The third man looked back instead of forward, letting personal attachments get in the way of his commitment.

These examples highlight the profound sacrifices required to follow Christ. Discipleship requires a steadfast commitment to the mission. Any hesitation, looking back, or clinging to worldly concerns can result in disastrous consequences.

Discipleship: A Call for All

Although the price of discipleship may appear intimidating, it is not exclusive to a select few. The final words of the Lord Jesus Christ before His ascension underscore the inclusive nature of this calling.

Matthew 28:18-20:

Jesus came and told his disciples, ‘I have been given all authority in heaven and on earth.’
‘Go, therefore, make disciples of all the nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit.’
‘Teaching these new disciples to obey all the commands I have given you. And be sure of this: I am with you always, even to the end of the age.’”

In this passage, the Lord Jesus Christ reassures His followers that He has all the authority needed to empower them in their mission. He promises to accompany them on their journey, emphasizing that this call is meant for everyone, not just the wise, powerful, or affluent.

As Paul explains in 1 Corinthians 1:26-28:

“Remember, dear brothers and sisters, that few of you were wise in the world’s eyes or powerful or wealthy when God called you.

Instead, God chose things the world considers foolish in order to shame those who think they are wise. And he chose things that are powerless to shame those who are powerful.

God chose things despised by the world, things counted as nothing at all, and used them to bring to nothing what the world considers important.”

The Command to Make Disciples

The central command in Matthew 28:19-20 is to “make disciples,” which is derived from the Greek verb matheteuo. This term carries a profound meaning, emphasizing the “intentional act of guiding someone to become a committed follower of the Lord Jesus Christ. It is not a passive process but an active and deliberate effort to lead others into a life of faith, obedience, and spiritual growth.”

The command to make disciples is comprehensive, involving three interconnected aspects:

  • Going: The first step in making disciples is to actively go out into the world. This means leaving one’s comfort zone and engaging with people from all nations and backgrounds. It reflects the global scope of the Great Commission, emphasizing that the gospel message is for everyone, regardless of culture, ethnicity, or location. The act of “going” requires initiative, courage, and a willingness to meet people where they are.
  • Baptizing: Baptism is the outward sign of an inward transformation. It is a public declaration of faith and a commitment to follow Christ. By baptizing new believers “in the name of the Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit,” disciples are welcomed into the community of faith, God’s Forever Family. It symbolizes their union with Christ and inclusion in the body of believers. This act is both a spiritual milestone and a communal celebration of a new identity in Christ.
  • Teaching: Making disciples doesn’t end with conversion or baptism; it involves an ongoing process of teaching and nurturing new believers to understand and follow Christ’s commands. This consists of modeling Christ-like behavior, fostering spiritual growth, and equipping disciples to live out their faith and disciple others.

Together, these three parts, going, baptizing, and teaching, form a complete approach to discipleship. They highlight the active, relational, and transformative nature of the Great Commission, calling every believer to join in the mission of making disciples and expanding God’s kingdom.

The Lord Jesus Christ invited every child of the King to follow Him, promising to make them “fishers of men” (Matthew 4:19). This invitation is not just a call to follow but also a call to lead others into discipleship. Each of us has been created for this purpose: to share the message of the gospel from our immediate surroundings to the ends of the earth. There are no exceptions.

Empowered by Christ’s Authority

We can confidently fulfill this mission because the Lord Jesus Christ has our back. He has provided all the power and authority needed to make it happen. As Stanley notes, the truth of Jesus is supported by His power and presence, enabling even the most ordinary individuals to accomplish extraordinary things. Discipleship is not about human achievement but about faithfully following the Master and trusting in His strength.

Success in the Father’s Kingdom

In the Father’s kingdom, success is not defined by worldly standards. It is measured by our faithfulness, focus, and dedication to His purposes.

Discipleship, like plowing, requires hard work and perseverance. It is not about looking back at past achievements or failures but about pressing forward with a steadfast heart, trusting in the Father’s guidance and provision.

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© Dr. H 2026

Stay Cool ∙∙

Stay Cool ∙∙

Delight yourself in the LORD, and He will give you the desires of your heart. – Psalms 37:4

Psalms 37:1-8

Don’t worry about the wicked or envy those who do wrong. Trust in the LORD and do good. Then you will live safely in the land and prosper. Take delight in the LORD, and he will give you your heart’s desires. Commit everything you do to the LORD. Trust him, and he will help you.

He will make your innocence radiate like the dawn, and the justice of your cause will shine like the noonday sun. Be still in the presence of the LORD and wait patiently for him to act. Don’t worry about evil people who prosper, or fret about their wicked schemes. Stop being angry! Turn from your rage! Do not lose your temper – it only leads to harm.

Understanding Anger: A Natural but Complex Emotion

Anger is a basic human emotion that can arise from a range of triggers, including personal frustrations, societal issues, political disputes, and other stressors. It functions as a natural response to situations perceived as threatening, unjust, or wrong. Psychologically, anger is closely connected to the fight-or-flight response, a mechanism designed to protect us from potential danger.

The experience of anger involves a cycle of emotional responses. Triggers, whether internal (e.g., thoughts and feelings) or external (e.g., specific events), initiate this process. These triggers are often quickly and unconsciously interpreted, activating neurochemical reactions that lead to feelings of anger. This emotion can then be either internalized or expressed through our actions and behaviors (uhs.berkeley.edu/bewellatwork).

The Futility of Anger

How often do we get upset when life doesn’t go as planned? When we face obstacles or unmet expectations, our first reaction is usually anger. Sadly, this emotion can escalate into fury, further complicating the situation.

What purpose does anger serve? The short answer: none. Anger resolves nothing and often exacerbates the very issues it tries to fix. As Shannon L. Alder wisely says, “Anger, resentment, and jealousy don’t change the heart of others, it only changes yours.”

The longer answer is found in James 1:20: “Man’s anger does not produce God’s righteousness.”

A Better Way: Responding with Trust and Calmness

The Father offers a more excellent way to handle life’s challenges. Instead of reacting with anger, we are called to respond thoughtfully and with trust. This involves looking at the bigger picture and choosing not to fret.

Psalms 37:1: “Do not fret because of evildoers, be not envious toward wrongdoers.”

The Hebrew word charah, translated as “fret or worry,” conveys the “idea of burning, becoming heated, or agitated.” As Wiersbe explains, “David’s message was, ‘Cool down and keep cool!’ He argues that the wicked are temporary and will one day be gone.” A fretting heart is not a trusting heart, and fretting often leads to anger.

David offers five helpful instructions in Psalms 37:

  • Don’t fret (Psalms 37:1, 7, 8).
  • Trust in the Lord (Psalms 37:3).
  • Delight in the Lord (Psalms 37:4).
  • Commit yourself to the Lord (Psalms 37:5-6).
  • Rest in the Lord (Psalms 37:7).

Instead of suppressing negative emotions, David shows how to replace them with positive ones. He trusted the Father, delighted in His presence, and committed his actions to Him, knowing the Father would provide help when needed.

Endurance Through Trials

James echoes similar wisdom, encouraging children of the King to perceive obstacles not merely as difficulties but as valuable opportunities for personal and spiritual development James 1:2-4:

“Dear brothers and sisters, when troubles come your way, consider it an opportunity for great joy. For you know that when your faith is tested, your endurance has a chance to grow. So let it grow, for when your endurance is fully developed, you will be perfect and complete, needing nothing.”

REFLECT & PRAY

Is it really that simple? Yes, absolutely! Instead of reacting impulsively with raw emotions to life’s challenges, every child of the King can learn and practice the skill of following the Father’s guidance by staying calm and engaging in thoughtful reflection.

Father, I recognize how often I fret and become angry when life doesn’t go my way. This reaction feels natural, yet I know it is not aligned with the principles You have set forth for Your children. Encourage and strengthen me to live in harmony with Your guidance, trusting in Your wisdom and provision.

INSIGHT

The Joy of Delighting in the Father

As we diligently learn and apply the Father’s teachings, an extraordinary outcome awaits us, an unforeseen blessing. He fulfills the desires of our hearts, bringing to life our most cherished aspirations. This profound truth is beautifully expressed in Psalms 37:4-5: “Take delight in the LORD, and he will give you your heart’s desires. Commit everything you do to the LORD. Trust him, and he will help you.”

What Does It Mean to Delight in the Father?

Delighting in the Father is not the same as the fleeting joy of children who burst with excitement when they get something they want. It goes beyond focusing on what He does for us or the gifts He gives. Instead, it is based on recognizing and valuing Who He is. The Father’s nature is not only to care for children of the King but to shower them with love and blessings. How remarkable it is to have such a loving and generous Father.

The Hebrew word anog, translated as “delight,” originates from a root meaning “to be brought up delicately,” “to be pampered,” or “to be raised in luxury.” “To delight in the Father is to take pleasure in Him, to enjoy and be satisfied with His presence.” This highlights the importance of embracing the joy of being cared for, nurtured by the Father, emphasizing that our genuine happiness and fulfillment come from Him.

As Wiersbe notes, our joy and blessings are found in the Lord Himself, apart from the material gifts He provides. The SPCL translation even phrases it as, “Love the Lord with tenderness.” This tender love and delight in the Father become the source of the innermost joy for every child of the King.

A Human Analogy: Refreshment and Rejuvenation

On a purely human level, consider the feeling of relaxation and reinvigoration after a long day’s work when you take a refreshing bath or shower. In that moment, the world feels good, and you are delighted by the simple pleasure of being refreshed. Similarly, as children of the King, when we embrace and cherish our relationship with the Father, we experience immense joy in His wonderful and delightful nature.

Barriers to Experiencing Delight

For many, this delightful connection with the Father may feel elusive. Why is that? Often, it comes down to timing. The Father operates according to His divine script and timeline, which may not align with our expectations.

Another possibility is that we are not fully following His guidance. Even when we are convinced, we are doing everything right, there may be areas where we are mistaken. The Father’s blessings flow when we align ourselves with His will and trust in His perfect plan.

The Choice Before Us

The choice is ours: we can indulge in unproductive fretting and anger, or we can choose to embrace the incredible calmness, peace, and joy that come from trusting the Father. By doing so, we open ourselves to the fulfillment of our deepest longings and desires.

As Paul reminds us in 1 Corinthians 15:58: “So, my dear brothers and sisters, be strong and immovable. Always work enthusiastically for the Lord, for you know that nothing you do for the Lord is ever useless.”

When we commit ourselves to the Lord and delight in His presence, we discover that our efforts are never in vain. Instead, they lead to a life of purpose, joy, and fulfillment in Him.

While anger is a natural emotion, it is most often counterproductive. The Scriptures offer us a clear framework for managing this emotion: trust in the Lord, take delight in His presence, and commit your ways to Him. By replacing negative reactions with positive, faith-based responses, we can navigate life’s challenges with grace and wisdom.

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© Dr. H 2026

The Greatest Wonders of Heaven ∙

The Greatest Wonders of Heaven ∙

You can enter God’s Kingdom only through the narrow gate. The highway to hell is broad, and its gate is wide for the many who choose that way. But the gateway to life is very narrow, and the road is difficult, and only a few ever find it. – Matthew 7:13-14

1 Timothy 1:12-16

I thank Christ Jesus our Lord, who has given me strength to do his work. He considered me trustworthy and appointed me to serve him, even though I used to blaspheme the name of Christ. In my insolence, I persecuted his people. But God had mercy on me because I did it in ignorance and unbelief.

 Oh, how generous and gracious our Lord was! He filled me with faith and love.

This is a trustworthy saying, and everyone should accept it: “Christ Jesus came into the world to save sinners,” and I am the worst of them all. But God had mercy on me so that Christ Jesus could use me as a prime example of his great patience with even the worst sinners. Then, others will realize that they, too, can believe in him and receive eternal life.

The Transformative Power of Grace

John Newton, the author of the cherished hymn “Amazing Grace,” was once a man defined by cruelty and selfishness. In his youth, he engaged in the abhorrent practice of slave trading, motivated solely by greed and devoid of human compassion. However, through His boundless mercy, the Father reached out to this lost soul, drawing him to Himself. Newton, overwhelmed by the grace that saved him, wrote these timeless words:

“Amazing grace! How sweet the sound
That saved a wretch like me!
I once was lost but now am found,
Was blind but now I see.”

Reflecting on his newfound redemption and the promise of heaven, Newton humbly wrote, “If I ever reach heaven, I expect to find three wonders there: first, to meet some I had not thought to see there. Second, to miss some I had expected to see there. Third, and greatest wonder of all, will be to find myself there.”

Grace for the Worst of Sinners

The apostle Paul expressed a similar sense of unworthiness and gratitude for God’s grace. Once a blasphemer and relentless persecutor of Christians, Paul’s incredible metamorphosis stands as a powerful witness to God’s boundless mercy. His shift transformation from hostility to faith highlights the redemptive power of grace, transforming even the fiercest opponent into a fervent advocate of the Christian faith.

1 Timothy 1:13-16:


“Even though I used to blaspheme the name of Christ. In my insolence, I persecuted his people. But God had mercy on me because I did it in ignorance and unbelief.

Oh, how generous and gracious our Lord was! He filled me with faith and love.

This is a trustworthy saying, and everyone should accept it: ‘Christ Jesus came into the world to save sinners’, and I am the worst of them all.

But God had mercy on me so that Christ Jesus could use me as a prime example of his great patience with even the worst sinners. Then, others will realize that they, too, can believe in him and receive eternal life.”

If anyone had reason to doubt their worthiness for heaven, it was Paul. Yet, he understood that his salvation was not earned by his deeds but was a gift of grace. God’s mercy and patience with Paul serve as a powerful example for all who feel unworthy of God’s love.

The Universality of Sin and the Gift of Redemption

Scripture leaves no room for doubt: no one is deserving of heaven based on their own merit.

Romans 3:23: “Everyone has sinned; we all fall short of God’s glorious standard.”

Because of humanity’s sin, God sent His Son, the Lord Jesus Christ, to redeem and forgive us. Our righteousness is not achieved through our actions but is graciously granted through faith in Christ and His finished work on the cross.

Romans 3:22-25:

“We are made right with God by placing our faith in Jesus Christ. And this is true for everyone who believes, no matter who we are.

Yet God, with undeserved kindness, declares that we are righteous. He did this through Christ Jesus when he freed us from the penalty for our sins.

For God presented Jesus as the sacrifice for sin. People are made right with God when they believe that Jesus sacrificed his life, shedding his blood.”

REFLECT & PRAY

Stanley writes that, “One day, when we stand before Christ, it will become absolutely clear what we accomplished for Him through the Spirit and what we did on our own power. No one will quibble with God’s judgment.”

Father, You are my most dependable friend. I desire to trust You fully each day. You understand my frailty and shortcomings, yet You love me with unending grace. You have removed my sins as far as the East is from the West (Psalms 103:12). Strengthen and encourage me to build upon the foundation You have laid in my life.

INSIGHT

A Heavenly Perspective on Eternal Rewards

What is the link between our actions on earth and our eternal rewards? Simply put, we are not told, but perhaps the following can help us.

The story is told of a wealthy woman, a child of the King, who died and went to heaven. She was warmly welcomed to her heavenly mansion. Although her new residence was somewhat modest, its beautiful design exceeded her expectations. But her happiness was soon overshadowed when she saw her former gardener arriving at a mansion across the street. His mansion was four times bigger and radiated extraordinary beauty.

Perplexed, she turned to the angel accompanying her and inquired if the gardener truly lived in such a grand estate. The angel answered that he did. And went on to kindly explain that their heavenly abodes were crafted from the spiritual investments they had made during their earthly lives.

The woman’s faith had faltered, and her deeds were inconsistent, resulting in a mansion of limited splendor. In contrast, her gardener had demonstrated steadfast devotion to Christ, amassing treasures in heaven, while she had focused primarily on earthly rewards.

Although this tale is fictional, it reflects the principles of eternal rewards and judgment described in 1 Corinthians 3:12-17. Our time and efforts on Earth will be evaluated, and while some children of the King will receive great rewards, others will face loss.

Could it be that the materials needed to build our eternal homes are accumulated in heaven based on our commitment and efforts to live for Him on earth? If so, maybe many of us need to start making multiple trips to a spiritual building supply store to avoid ending up in a shack with a tin roof, cardboard walls, and no indoor plumbing. 

The Foundation of Our Work

1 Corinthians 3:11-15:

“For no one can lay any foundation other than the one we already have, Jesus Christ. Anyone who builds on that foundation may use a variety of materials: gold, silver, jewels, wood, hay, or straw. But on the judgment day, fire will reveal what kind of work each builder has done.”

“The fire will show if a person’s work has any value. If the work survives, that builder will receive a reward. But if the work is burned up, the builder will suffer a great loss. The builder will be saved, but like someone barely escaping through a wall of flames.”

Paul delineates that the Lord Jesus Christ is the only foundation upon which we can build. However, the materials we choose, whether gold, silver, and jewels or wood, hay, and straw, determine the lasting value of our work. On judgment day, fire will test the quality of each person’s efforts. Those whose efforts withstand the test will be rewarded, while those whose work is burned away will experience loss, although they will ultimately be saved themselves.

The Three Types of Builders

In 1 Corinthians 3:17, Paul identifies three categories of builders:

The Skilled Experts: These builders work carefully and wisely, using materials that withstand fire (1 Corinthians 3:14; compare with 1 Corinthians 3:10).

The Unwise: These builders use inferior materials, resulting in work that is temporary and eventually destroyed by fire (1 Corinthians 3:15).

The Destructive: These individuals damage God’s work and face serious consequences (1 Corinthians 3:17).

The materials, like gold, silver, and precious stones, represent efforts that are lasting and valuable, whereas wood, hay, and straw represent work that is temporary and of little eternal value. The specific materials are intentionally not named. The Father did not provide an explicit list of tasks. Why?

What He approves and desires from children of the King is revealed throughout the Scriptures. We are to strive to do what is right. Seek first His Kingdom and love our neighbors. The rest will follow.

Building with Wisdom and Purpose

To create something enduring, we must exercise wisdom and care in our efforts. As Richison suggests, the materials we select must withstand the Father’s testing fire. Are we building with higher-quality materials that reflect eternal priorities, or are we relying on inferior materials that serve only temporary purposes?

Our actions on Earth, to some extent, shape aspects of our eternal future. This calls for careful consideration of our priorities and the goals that motivate our efforts.

The Ultimate Question

Ultimately, the key question isn’t the scale or splendor of our earthly achievements, but rather the motivations that drive them. Are we devotedly serving the Father, or are we merely catering to our own interests? The answer to this question shapes the eternal value of our efforts and the rewards we will receive in the life to come.

God’s grace is profoundly transformative, capable of reaching even the most broken and the seemingly unworthy. The lives of figures like John Newton and the apostle Paul, along with the promises found in Scripture, remind us that salvation is a gift of grace, not a reward for our actions.

Through Christ’s sacrifice, we are redeemed, made righteous, and welcomed into the Father’s Forever Family.

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© Dr. H 2026

Why Do We Suffer?

Why Do We Suffer?

Even though Jesus was God’s Son, he learned obedience from the things he suffered. – Hebrews 5:8

Deuteronomy 8:5 Just as a parent disciplines a child, the LORD your God disciplines you for your own good.

1 Peter 2:19-21:

For God is pleased with you when you do what you know is right and patiently endure unfair treatment. Of course, you get no credit for being patient if you are beaten for doing wrong. But if you suffer for doing good and endure it patiently, God is pleased with you.

For God called you to do good, even if it means suffering, just as Christ suffered for you. He is your example, and you must follow in his steps.

The Concept of Post-Traumatic Growth (PTG)

In the 1990s, contemporary psychology introduced the concept of Post-Traumatic Growth (PTG) as a framework for understanding how individuals can experience positive transformation following suffering and trauma. This theory posits that those who overcome mental and emotional challenges often emerge stronger, with a renewed sense of identity, a deeper understanding of the world, and enriched relationships.

Psychologists identified five key areas where such growth typically occurs:

  • A heightened appreciation for life
  • Strengthened relationships with others
  • The discovery of new opportunities
  • Increased personal resilience
  • Spiritual transformation

While PTG was a groundbreaking discovery for psychologists made through trial and error, the Scriptures revealed this truth long ago. Adversity and trials have always been the Father’s primary tools for fostering spiritual growth and transformation. Through suffering, the Father refines us, strengthens our resilience, and deepens our understanding of ourselves, others, and our relationship with Him. This divine process is not arbitrary but meticulously designed to shape us into Christlikeness.

Learning Through Affliction

The Scriptures teach that suffering is a means by which we learn obedience and grow in faith. As the psalmist reflects:

Psalms 119:67: “Before I was afflicted, I went astray, but now I keep Your word.”

Affliction redirects us, teaching us to obey and follow the Father’s will. Even the Lord Jesus Christ, though sinless, learned obedience through suffering. As Charles Stanley notes, “What teacher did God use? Suffering, just as He does with us. God intends to use our suffering to teach us the value and the power of obedience.”

Hebrews 5:8: “Even though Jesus was God’s Son, he learned obedience from the things he suffered.”

Theological Paradox: The Obedience of Christ

The dual nature of the Lord Jesus Christ, fully divine and fully human, presents a profound theological paradox. As the sinless Son of God (Hebrews 4:15, 7:26), why would He need to learn obedience? The answer lies in His human experience.

Though inherently obedient, Jesus gained experiential knowledge by living as a human. He grew physically, emotionally, and spiritually (Luke 2:40, 2:52), facing suffering and temptation. Through these experiences, He learned the cost of obedience in the face of adversity. Each victory over temptation was achieved by submitting to the Father’s will, demonstrating His unwavering faithfulness.

The Greek language offers a fascinating insight into this process. In Hebrews 5:8, the phrase “He learned from what He suffered” contains a linguistic play on words: emathen aphʾ hōn epathen. This alliteration connects mathein, “to learn,” with pathein, “to suffer,” a recurring theme in ancient Greek thought. As Barclay and O’Brien note, this rhetorical device emphasizes the idea that “learning comes through suffering.”

What Does It Mean to Learn Obedience?

To “learn obedience” does not imply that Jesus was ever disobedient. Instead, it means that His obedience was tested and proven through real-life experiences, particularly through suffering. As He encountered new challenges, His faithfulness to the Father was continually tested and affirmed. His ultimate test came in the suffering leading up to His death.

Through this process, the perfect Son of God became a compassionate and perfect high priest for His people. His appointment as high priest was not based solely on His divine nature, but also on His human experience of suffering, overcoming temptation, and remaining without sin.

Hebrews 4:15: “For we do not have a high priest who is unable to sympathize with our weaknesses, but one who has been tempted in every way as we are, yet without sin.”

As Girdwood and Verkruyse explain, Jesus “earned” the right to represent humanity through His suffering, making Him uniquely qualified to intercede for us. His ability to sympathize with our weaknesses comes from His firsthand experience of human hardships.

REFLECT & PRAY

The apostle Paul’s commitment mirrored that of the Lord Jesus Christ. He said in Acts 20:24: “But my life is worth nothing to me unless I use it for finishing the work assigned to me by the Lord Jesus, the work of telling others the Good News about the wonderful grace of God.”

Father, thank You for loving me so deeply that You are willing to invest in my life and shape me.

INSIGHT

The Difference Between Discipline and Punishment

Discipline and punishment, though often used interchangeably, are fundamentally distinct. “Punishment” is retrospective, focusing on past actions and imposing appropriate consequences. It seeks to address wrongdoing by delivering penalties. “Discipline,” however, is forward-looking. It is a process of training and preparation that equips individuals for future challenges and growth.

As a loving Father, God disciplines His children not out of anger but out of deep love and care. His discipline is an expression of His desire for our ultimate good, shaping us into the people He has called us to be.

Proverbs 3:12: “For the LORD disciplines those he loves, just as a father corrects a child in whom he delights.”

The Purpose of Divine Discipline

The writer of Hebrews provides an insightful explanation of God’s discipline, framing it as a sign of His love and a mark of our identity as His children.

Hebrews 12:5-11:

“And have you forgotten the encouraging words God spoke to you as his children? He said, ‘My child, don’t make light of the LORD’s discipline, and don’t give up when he corrects you. For the LORD disciplines those he loves, and he punishes each one he accepts as his child.’ As you endure this divine discipline, remember that God is treating you as his own children.”

“Whoever heard of a child who is never disciplined by its father? If God doesn’t discipline you as he does all of his children, it means that you are illegitimate and are not really his children at all.”

“Since we respected our earthly fathers who disciplined us, shouldn’t we submit even more to the discipline of the Father of our spirits, and live forever? For our earthly fathers disciplined us for a few years, doing the best they knew how. But God’s discipline is always good for us, so that we might share in his holiness.”

“No discipline is enjoyable while it is happening; it’s painful! But afterward there will be a peaceful harvest of right living for those who are trained in this way.”

God’s discipline is not a punishment for past mistakes but a tool for growth and preparation. It is a means by which He molds us into His image and prepares us for the future He has planned. Discipline is an integral part of His loving care, designed to help us share in His holiness and produce a harvest of righteousness.

Discipline as an Expression of Love

Is discipline the result of God’s anger? Absolutely not! When we face suffering, it is not an act of divine wrath but a demonstration of divine investment. It is easy to misinterpret hardship as abandonment or anger, but Scripture reveals a different perspective.

The heroes of faith in Hebrews 11 endured immense suffering, not because God was displeased with them, but because He delighted in them. Their faith was not superficial or convenient; it was deeply rooted and unwavering, even in the face of mistreatment, torture, and death.

As Ortlund notes, “Theirs was no country club religion.” These individuals trusted God with their whole hearts, remaining steadfast despite their trials. Far from being a sign of God’s anger, their suffering was met with His commendation. He took pride in them and delighted in their faithfulness.

Hebrews 11:2, 6, 39: “God is not ashamed to be called their God.”

This truth reframes our understanding of suffering. Hardships are not a verdict against us; they are evidence of God’s love and His active work in our lives. They are proof that He cherishes us and is preparing us for something greater.

Suffering as Preparation for Destiny

God has a unique purpose and destiny for each of child of the King. Recognizing this truth is essential to understanding the role of discipline and suffering in our lives. As Ortlund beautifully states, “You are a person of destiny; your greatness has already been won for you by Christ at his cross.”

Suffering and discipline are the Father’s tools to prepare us for the fulfillment of that destiny. They are not random or meaningless but are part of His divine plan to shape us into the people He has called us to be.

The ultimate example of this is found in the life of Jesus Christ. Though He was the Son of God, He learned through suffering.

Hebrews 5:8: “Even though Jesus was God’s Son, he learned obedience from the things he suffered.”

This principle illustrates profound logic: if the sinless Son of God was perfected through suffering, how much more will we, His children, be shaped by trials?

Recognizing the Father’s purpose in Christ’s suffering reframes our hardships. Suffering is not pointless pain but preparation to develop and mature us to fulfill the Father’s purpose for our lives.

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© Dr. H 2026

What Goes Around . . . ∙

What Goes Around . . . ∙

Love prospers when a fault is forgiven, but dwelling on it separates close friends. – Proverbs 17:9

Galatians 6:7-10

Do not be deceived, God is not mocked; for whatever a man sows, this he will also reap.

For the one who sows to his own flesh will from the flesh reap corruption, but the one who sows to the Spirit will from the Spirit reap eternal life.

Let us not lose heart in doing good, for in due time, we will reap if we do not grow weary.

So then, while we have the opportunity, let us do good to all people, especially those of the household of the faith.

The Law of Cause and Effect

Throughout history, humanity has uncovered fundamental principles that govern the workings of the world. Among these, Ralph Waldo Emerson referred to the Law of Cause and Effect as the “Law of laws.” This principle asserts that every outcome is a direct result of specific causes, and likewise, every cause leads to particular outcomes.

In essence, our lives are influenced by the thoughts we nurture, the behaviors we adopt, and the actions we take. By altering our actions, we can transform the results we experience. This universal truth emphasizes the significance of personal responsibility and the profound impact our choices have on our lives.

The Power of Choice

We have the ability to choose how we respond to both life’s challenges and triumphs. Our reactions can be either wise or foolish, and the outcomes will follow accordingly. Making wise choices often leads to positive outcomes, whereas poor decisions can result in negative or even disastrous consequences.

Our thoughts and actions create ripples, much like a stone thrown into a pond. These ripples extend outward, affecting not only our own lives but also those around us. However, many individuals mistakenly believe that their actions exist in isolation, detached from the broader implications they may carry.

The Principle of Sowing and Reaping

Farmers understand the principle of reaping what you sow, which they rely on for successful agricultural outcomes. This age-old adage goes beyond farming; it also sheds light on our spiritual relationship with the Father. Stanley expands this idea, stating, “You reap what you sow, more than you sow, and later than you sow.”

Applying this principle can significantly influence our actions and their results, reminding usthat the choices we make today ultimately shape our future. Ignoring this fundamental truth is indulging in wishful thinking; even worse, it can lead to self-deception.

The Apostle Paul provides a clear warning: Galatians 6:7: “Do not be deceived: God is not mocked, for whatever a man sows, that will he also reap.”

The Meaning of Mocking God

What does it mean to mock God? In English, the term “mocking” implies “treating someone or something with contempt or scorn.” The Greek word found in Galatians 6:7 is mukterizo, a term that appears only once in the New Testament. This word, derived from the Greek noun mukter, which means “nose” or “nostril,” suggests a connotation of “sneering” or “turning up the nose in scorn.” Thus, it encompasses the ideas of “mocking, deriding, deceiving, outsmarting, or despising.”

Paul’s statement is succinctly captured in the TEV translation: “No one makes a fool of God!” Similarly, the JB translation cautions against self-deception, asserting, “Don’t delude yourself into thinking God can be cheated.”

REFLECT & PRAY

How many people believe they can disregard the Father and His unchanging laws without facing consequences? Some may think they can outsmart or deceive Him, while others might doubt His existence or believe He is indifferent and not paying attention. Such assumptions are both dangerous and misguided.

Father, I seek your guidance in learning and making sound decisions. Please help me choose actions that honor You and lead to positive outcomes.

INSIGHT

The Power of Change and Growth

Henry Ford’s well-known statement, “If you always do what you’ve always done, you’ll always get what you’ve always got,” emphasizes the vital need for change as a way to break free from repetitive, unproductive cycles. It reminds us that growth and progress are difficult, if not impossible, without a willingness to change our actions and mindset. Without change, we remain stuck in patterns that produce the same results.

Sadly, human nature with its flaws often leads us to make bad decisions and engage in harmful ways. These habits can trap us in a cycle of stagnation, repeating the same mistakes, hoping for different results. The classic, well-known definition of insanity. Change requires not just the desire to improve but also the courage to face our shortcomings and the discipline to form new, healthier habits. Doing so helps us break free from the limits of our past choices.

As Charles Stanley pointed out, “Today is the father of tomorrow.” The reality of who we are now stems from our past thoughts and actions. Similarly, John Maxwell notes, “Change is inevitable. Growth is optional.” These perspectives highlight that while change is a constant in life, personal growth demands intentional effort.

By intentionally pursuing what is good, we attain better results. The Apostle Paul teaches that our actions, whether good or bad, inevitably produce corresponding results.

Principles of Sowing and Reaping

The law of sowing and reaping is a fundamental principle established by the Creator that governs both the natural and spiritual domains. Here are three essential aspects to consider:

  1. The Law of Cause and Effect: This principle, often distilled into the saying “what goes around comes around,” illustrates the inherent consequences of our actions. Every choice we make yields a corresponding result, reflecting the interconnectedness of our deeds and their consequences.
  • A Double-Edged Sword: The harvest law applies uniformly to both positive and negative actions. Kind, gracious deeds lead to favorable outcomes, while malevolent ones result in adverse consequences. This duality underscores the importance of our moral choices.
  • An Inescapable Principle: The law of sowing and reaping functions automatically, independent of human intervention. It unfolds as a natural result of our decisions, a reminder of the power of free will and responsibility.

Although this principle is always at work, its effects are not always immediate. The outcomes of our choices may take time to surface. If we indulge in selfish desires, we may eventually face the significant consequences of corruption, which must be addressed and eliminated.

Forgiveness: A Key to Healthy Relationships

Relationships can be complicated, especially when we feel hurt or wronged by loved ones, such as family and friends. During these tough times, it’s important to focus on forgiveness instead of holding onto resentment and pain.

Proverbs 17:9 states, “Love prospers when a fault is forgiven, but dwelling on it separates close friends.”

This verse underscores the importance of forgiveness in fostering and maintaining healthy relationships. It has been interpreted in various ways, including “To forgive a wrong fosters friendship” (FRCL) and “Whoever wishes to keep a friendship forgives.”

Forgiveness is not only essential for maintaining healthy relationships but also a spiritual imperative. As James 4:17 reminds us, “It is sin to know what you ought to do and then not do it.” Choosing to forgive and act thoughtfully reflects our commitment to living according to our values and obedience to the Father.

The light that Christ provides serves as a pathway to liberation and guidance.

In Ephesians 5:14-17, the Apostle Paul encourages,

“Awake, O sleeper, rise up from the dead, and Christ will give you light.

So be careful how you live. Don’t live like fools, but like those who are wise.

Make the most of every opportunity in these evil days.

Don’t act thoughtlessly, but understand what the Lord wants to do.”

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© Dr. H 2026