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“Not everyone who says to me, ‘Lord, Lord,’ will enter into the kingdom of heaven.” – Matthew 7:21
Matthew 7:21-23
21 “Not everyone who calls out to me, ‘Lord! Lord!’ will enter the Kingdom of Heaven. Only those who actually do the will of my Father in heaven will enter.”
22 “On judgment day, many will say to me, ‘Lord! Lord! We prophesied in your name and cast out demons in your name and performed many miracles in your name.’”
23 “But I will reply, ‘I never knew you.’”
Understanding Fear of Missing Out
FOMO, or Fear of Missing Out, is a feeling of unease that arises when we sense a fleeting opportunity slipping away. It often manifests as emotional or mental tension, accompanied by anxiety and the nagging thought that we’re being left out of something valuable. In simple terms, FOMO is the fear of not being included. At its core, FOMO is the worry that we’re missing an opportunity to engage in something that holds significant value and benefit for us.
While this feeling often arises in the realm of investments, like stocks, real estate, or startups, there’s a deeper question we must consider. These material assets may offer short-term gains, but do they provide anything lasting? Can earthly investments yield endless rewards? Of course not.
Investing in Eternity
What, then, produces eternal value? The Bible provides a clear perspective on what offers both immediate and everlasting benefits.
The apostle Paul writes in 1 Timothy 4:8, “Godliness is of value in every way, as it holds promise for the present life and also for the life to come.”
For the children of the King, the prospect of eternal joy in God’s presence is their secure future. Psalms 16:11 declares, “You will fill me with joy in Your presence.” The possibility of missing out on this eternal inheritance is almost unthinkable.
The Lord Jesus Christ assures us of this security in John 10:29, “No one can snatch them from the Father’s hand.” By faith, we rest confidently in His promise.
What about those who have rejected this invitation? Those who do not call Him Father? The thought of eternal separation from God is sobering. For them, the fear of missing out when considering eternity can be emotionally crippling.
The Chain of Separation
Eternal separation doesn’t happen suddenly; it is the result of a series of deeply personal decisions. People choose doubt over faith and sin over surrendering to God. This creates a chain reaction. It begins with choosing sin instead of submission, which leads to spiritual death and ultimately results in eternal separation from the Father.
The stakes are high. While losing things in this life may cause temporary disappointment, the reality of being eternally separated from God would bring devastation beyond comprehension. It is the ultimate “market crash,” a loss from which no one can recover.
Regrettably, many think they are secure within the Father’s Forever Family when, in reality, they are not. How horrific that many will not become aware of this until they have a face-to-face encounter with the Lord Jesus Christ. The Lord Jesus solemnly warns in Matthew 7:21, “Not everyone who says to Me, ‘Lord, Lord,’ will enter the Kingdom of Heaven, but only the one who does the will of My Father who is in heaven.”
The Father knows who belongs to Him, and no hopeful pretense can deceive Him. For those who have not placed their trust in Him, FOMO creates an eternal void, one filled with regret and remorse.
Paul clearly warns in 2 Corinthians 13:5, “Examine yourselves to see if your faith is genuine. Test yourselves. Surely you know that Jesus Christ is in you; if not, you have failed the test of genuine faith.”
Redemption Through Christ
Thankfully, the Father offers a way for everyone to experience eternal life with Him. Redemption is made possible through the death and resurrection of Jesus Christ. The victory over sin and death is available to all who place their faith in Him.
The apostle Paul asserts in 1 Corinthians 15:55-7: “O death, where is your victory? O death, where is your sting? . . . But thank God!
This gift of grace assures that those who trust in Jesus will never face the ultimate fear of missing out (FOMO). Eternal security is provided unconditionally, solely through faith in His completed work on the cross.
REFLECT & PRAY
An explosion of cold, unloving hearts has defined the 21st century. The allure of a world that disconnects us from eternal truth is strong. Yet, we are called to stand firm, to “hate what is wrong and hold tightly to what is good” (Romans 12:9).
Father, in so many ways, I have missed out on so much. Yet You have secured for me an eternal place in Your presence. Thank You for the victory over sin and death through the Lord Jesus Christ.
INSIGHT
Enduring the Perilous Last Days
The days we live in are undeniably turbulent. With chaos escalating across the globe, it feels as though creation itself groans under the weight of a downward spiral. The Apostle Paul’s warning to Timothy about the last days resonates deeply within our hearts. 2 Timothy 3:1 states, “You should know this, Timothy, that in the last days, there will be very difficult times.”
The Greek word used here for “difficult” is chalepos. Chalepos can also be translated as “perilous, terrible, fierce, or savage.” Interestingly, this term appears only twice in the New Testament. The first instance is in Matthew 8:28, where it describes the ferocious nature of two men from the Gadarenes who were possessed by demons. The second occurrence, in 2 Timothy 3:1, paints a vivid picture of the character of the age marking the last days. These times will not only be difficult, but also savage, harsh, and filled with terrors beyond belief.
William Barclay calls this passage “one of the most terrible pictures in the New Testament of what a godless world would be like.” It presents us with a sobering view of humanity in a state of rebellion against its Creator.
The Frightening Reality of the Last Days
Paul’s description of the Last Days presents a chilling account of human depravity and excess. These will be times of violence, danger, and moral chaos, a period unparalleled even by history’s darkest chapters. Imagine a reign of godlessness and terror, its intensity eclipsing even the most significant events, such as the French Revolution. Evil during this time will audaciously target all that is good and godly. This final assault of evil will threaten the existential existence of humanity.
Despite this, we are reminded of one unshakable truth: evil will be defeated, and the Father will prevail.
The Ghastly Characteristics of a Godless World
What does such a lawless and godless world look like? In 2 Timothy 3:2-5, Paul outlines 19 specific characteristics that define the people of these perilous times. They will be marked by self-centeredness, greed, and a lack of regard for sacred things. Here are some of the key traits Paul shares:
- Lovers of self and money
- Arrogant and boastful
- Disobedient to parents, unthankful, and unholy
- Without natural affection or kindness
- Unforgiving and slanderous
- Reckless, prideful, and treacherous
- Lovers of pleasure rather than lovers of God
Although they may outwardly appear religious, they deny the very power of God that can transform them. This counterfeit spirituality conceals hearts that reject both truth and holiness.
Doesn’t this description sound eerily familiar? The moral landscape Paul described closely resembles our modern society. Could it be that invisible spiritual influencers are at work behind the scenes, laying the groundwork for the rise of the Antichrist? Through the constant flow of digital media, we are inundated with images of violence, hatred, and brokenness. It’s a wake-up call as loud as any trumpet blast.
A Loud and Clear Wake-Up Call
This is not a time for fear but for awareness and preparation. Even as the world becomes darker and FOMO (fear of missing out) looms large for many, as children of the King, we can remain steadfast. The Scriptures urge us to trust the Lord and listen for His call. The Lord Jesus Christ reminds us in Revelation 3:20, “Here I am! I stand at the door and knock.” He offers not only hope for today but the certainty of salvation and eternal life.
When the world feels out of control, remember His words in John 14:6, “I am the way and the truth and the life.” His way is sure and secure.
Assurance in the Father’s Victory
Despite the grim descriptions of the Last Days, the Scriptures assure us that God’s purposes will prevail. A time is coming when the Father will have a climactic confrontation with evil itself. In the end, He will triumph. The chaos we witness today is no match for His ultimate authority.
The prophet Isaiah asserts in Isaiah 14:27, “For the LORD Almighty has purposed, and who can thwart Him? His hand is stretched out, and who can turn it back?”
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